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I hate my wife but I'm also the father of two young boys. They are my entire world. I can't bear the thought of leaving and not seeing them all the time.

I hate my wife but I'm also the father of two young boys. They are my entire world. I can't bear the thought of leaving and not seeing them all the time.

 
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What is better for them, living with married parents at each others throats twenty four seven or sharing parents that go there separate ways and have an amiable relationship living apart. You make the call...
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I am in the same boat. How ever if I was to divorce my wife I would still see my daughter A LOT. But the thing is my wife doesn't have a job. Where would she live? We are already going into debt each month as it is. Plus she doesn't want a divorce, can't blame her I guess, who wouldn't want a free ride.
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yeah bc the kids grow up and are SO HAPPY bc mom and dad fought their entire life...they will never need counseling for your drinking and her yelling...NEVER @@
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NOT all marriages are screaming and drinking just because your NOT in love anymore, and i can say from my point of view of having JUST sent my son off to law school today, and a daughter who works and goes to school full time, that some of the children turn out JUST FINE, from parents who were NOT perfectly blissful thruout their childhood. Some make sacrifices for their children, and it shows in the children we've raised!
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You loved this woman engough to marry her and have two children. Try to figure out what went wrong and fix it. Everyone deserves that chance. Hating your wife isn't going to solve anything so start making things better. Talk to her and see if she's willing to change what you hate about her. Divorce is for cowards who can't figure out how to make things right so they run away like little kids when they want to avoid something unplesent. Try being an adult and TALK to your wife. If that doesn't work then at least you TRIED.
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DUDE I AM A SINGLE FATHER STRUGGLING FOR CUSTODY OF MY CHILDREN. YOU DO WHAT YOU NEED TO DO TO DO RIGHT BY THEM AND YOURSELF. ITS HARD, AND I COULDNT AFFORD A LAWYER AND I HAVE BEEN REPRESENTING MYSELF. IM AM WINNING, BUT ITS STILL AT LEAST A YEAR AWAY FROM A DECISION. (BEEN AT IT FOR JUST OVER A YEAR NOW. STAND YOUR GROUND!
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Wow, so many stupid people who still believe in this sham called marriage. When are you fools going to wake up, oh yeah. . . I see, you will wake up once it is too late. Way to go! Thanks for bringing more f***ed-up people into the middle of your misguided attempt at family. Great job a** ****!
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^well said
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2 up: Hear Ye! Hear Ye!
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Typical american men..they all have no life
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^ And go around pushing their bitter jaded spineless bullshit onto other men in an attempt to feel superior. These anti marriage comments are from some god damn girls, who had their hearts broken and obviously have no clue how to grow up and deal with their own issues. Go wipe your pussy's b****es.
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^ You sound like a bitter old hag.
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^ You sound like a stupid, immature, waste of skin.
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You should try Anti-Depressants, or seek help from a professional.
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You kids know you don't love your wife, and they will grow up thinking that living hopw you live is good, becasue they think the world of both of you that how you guys do it isn't so bad...right? Stop being selfish and do right by your wife and your kids, and most of all yourself. I wish you all the best. ~~A loving Wife and Mother of 4
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kill her!!!with kindness
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Yeah, kill her with kindness and her selfish a ss with take advantage of you until she destroys your life.
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I lived with parents that were on again off again fighters. he drank she yelled. I just graduated from college but i go to therapy monthly bc of them. get out now, thats what you can do for your kids
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again NOT all drink and YELL :D
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I hope you grew some balls by now. The departure from your wife does not need to harse or ugly, you kids will decide for themselves one day who is the bigger a** ****.
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