try online dating. I have met a slew of women that way. Sweet ones too. Be kind in your profile. Say something like, Seeking a kind, respectful woman who knows what it means to be a lady and appreciates a man who loves his mom and loves practicing chivalry. If you do not practice chivalary(opening car doors, pulling out chairs for her, helping her take off and put on her coat, etc)then start now. When you find a decent woman from a decent family and you treat her this way, dude she will be putty in your hands. Trust me on it. If you find one who does not appreciate your efforts, dump her. There is an endless line of women looking foe men like that in a country with enough jerks. Good Luck!
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12 up. I do the same thing and it works. You just need to take your time and find her. Don't sleep with her too soon at first. Wait about 6 months as you come to know her. You will see the red flags easier when sex is not involved. Study her and study her family and keep you heart off your sleeve. Until you know she is The One, approach her like a casual friend while dating. Your will score BIG! I met the kindest, most respectful woman ever by approaching her this way at first. She will also respect you for not trying to get in her pants so soon.
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1 and 2 upGreat advice and I am a woman. I would add that you bring her flowers on the first date. we love that.
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.....and dont make her put your condom on.....do it yourself !
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You're weak!
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^5 It Sounds like a classy and healthy way to start a relationship. Also sounds like a good way to play the field and see what is out there.
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Perhaps I misinterpreted what you wrote, but I would not recommend treating her like a casual friend while dating. If a guy treated me like a casual friend I would assume he is not serious or into me and move on. He wouldn't have to sleep with me or indicate undying love, blah blah blah, but he would certainly have to demonstrate that I'm more in his eyes than a casual friend.
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^...one up....have a couple of drinks and he will "be into you"
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Stay single. I'm married. It ain't all it's cracked up to be. My wife told me she isn't attracted to me anymore. I want to crawl under a rock and die. Save yourself some heartache n just stay single. Children aren't a vacation either.
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1 up,Dude, don't fret it. Find something on the side. There are dating sites for married people. One is ashley madison. When my marriage was imploding that is what I did. It will give you relief as your marriage fails, which is coming. So get prepared.
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4 up. I did not mean it that way. When I said casual dating as if it were a friend, I meant he needs to stay casual from his heart-to protect his heart- I did not mean it by his actions. He would certainly need to show an interest to her. I like the idea of the flowers. I do the same thing, but OP, don't give just the first time. Give them for no reason and tell her something like you just wanted to brighten up her day, or that you were thinking about her when you stopped in the grocery store. You will keep her melted with your thoughfulness. Thanks for bring it up.
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I really want to find a bad slutty girl to bang when I'm in the mood. but hey, who doesn't?
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I am looking for a clean girl to eat twice per day !!
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call my wife ,she has more boyfriends than a cheerleader in high school.
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To the last 3 posts... I like your train of thought ;)
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Hey if u dont find a woman try a man.we can love as well.I AM SINGLE.
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I am the OP and this post has got the most positive feedback from anything Ive tried before. and 1^ sorry dude I am way to strait or I would have considered it.
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