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My husband left me....his friends came after me saying "I was fair game"....I slept with his best friend, and I do not feel bad or ashamed. 
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<br/>Should I?

My husband left me....his friends came after me saying "I was fair game"....I slept with his best friend, and I do not feel bad or ashamed.

Should I?

 
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HELL NO! its your life
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NO Way. You go on and live the best life you can. Remember living well is the best revenge!!
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To me... Its more acceptable if he left you, but why? Did it make you feel better? You must be white trash. Right? You are all white trash and Im an African queen. b****es!
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Don't feel bad. But there are plenty of guys that won't try and prey on you.
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No! Don't feel bad, F him! But go find a new circle of friends...you don't want to stay in that cycle...as the one who is available to anyone. Don't forget to make it a new, better world for you!
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If he has a brother, f*** him too..
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Honestly, what you did isn't unfair to him. But it may have been unfair to you and, in the long run, your emotional growth (how you see and think of yourself.) I definitely agree with above commenter...move on to other groups and try for a clean start.
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how's the weather on your little planet? lol.
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I think I am one of your husband's friends. Can I come over?
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My best friend also left his wife and she is hitting on me. I might do her not sure
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"Fair game"? That's f***ing creepy, to say the least- and this is coming from a divorced man in his forties. Don't feel bad about sleeping with another guy, even one of his friends- as noted above, it's your life and body to do with as you please- but they should feel bad about being so predatory.
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No.
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Don't become the casual porti- potti!! Anyone can use you, But where is the love and respect! Have respect and love for yourself. They are going back and telling "Homeboy" I f***ed your gurl! Damn WTF!!!!
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sounds like your husband did the right thing. You and his so called friend are hollow.
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WTF? Why do you feel like some kind of 'prey' just cos guys find you attractive and want to sleep with you? That's twisted.
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Like the other guy said, nothing to feel guilty about. It was your choice and I hope you had a good time! I would suggest moving on to a new group of friends so you don't have to be reminded of your ex all of the time. Out of sight helps with the out of mid bit. But if he has a brother definitely f*** him!!! THEN move on! Good luck!
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I meant out of sight out of mind...ooops!
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You go Girl!!!Follow your pleasure!
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Are you still married? or divoriced? I'm glad your not pouting about it. If I was your ol' mans best friend and you were decent I'd want to have some fun with you also.
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Nope,I strongly believe in "NEXT!"
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Do what ever it takes 2 feel better and tell who ever don't like it 2 k!ss ur a
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Hell no - you didn't leave your husband, he left you!
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