My wife was the same. One day she said, "why don't you touch me?" I didn't know she wanted me to. Now we cuddle all night long. communicate
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Why do women do that?
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Not just women. I suppose it's fear of rejection. Why not give it a shot and make the first move.
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I lie next to my wife every night I wish I could touch her.
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or some men just *wait* for the woman to always make the move, and after a while, you just get tired of ALWAYS being the one to start thing up. so you STOP starthing things up. just to SEE what will happen. (then its 4 years later)and you STILL have not had sex again.
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Maybe he/she is laying there wishing they could touch you...or wishing you would touch him/her.
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Sometimes its old scars. I'm married and still I fear rejection.
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i lived that feeling for 7 loveless years now i married a man that hugs and holds me everynight don't settle
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I used to roll over and cuddle my wife every night when we started living together. I'd put my arm over her, I'd cup her body into mine. I was at peace. I loved her so much. After a few months of irritability, she told me my arm was to heavy on her and that being so close made her feel hot and restricted. So I stopped. Then a few years later she mentiond that it would be nice for me to put my arm around her and cuddle in bed. As with so many other of her inconsistancies, I let it just go in one ear and out the other. It's just so, so much easier that way.
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For the last 6 years I have wished my husband would touch me, show love instead of being just a room mate.
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I have been with a man for 20yrs who rejects me every night. My heart breaks every day. Why do I do this? Selfless love.
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Married for 25 years this June. I lay awake at night wishing he would touch me. He is older and diabetic - on lots of meds so I tell myself that is why he shows no interst in me. Can't remember the last time he even kissed me. I hate that he has the power in this. Feel so rejected...have checked out MFW on Craigslist!!! Would never contact a man but am so starved for love. So tempting...so many people out there in loveless marriage just like me :(
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When I met my wife we would cuddle in a twin bed. Now five years later she refuses to let me touch her in our queen sized bed.
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i know how this feels.... its the worst.
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My wife is the same way. I always reach for her but she dosen't reach for me! I too am diabetic and I assure you that I have my "problems" but whenever we had sex, she almost always orgasmed. There are other ways besides intercourse!
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