You're a b****. I hope he wakes up and leave you and you are miserable and lonely for the rest of your life.
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I wouldn't put it quite so harshly. I'm curious, however, as to how your daughter will handle the effects of a passionless marriage, a mother who isn't happy and the potential break down of the relationship. I hope for your sake, hers and his that you are a really strong person AND a great actress. If you haven't married yet, please reconsider a lifetime of unhappiness.
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These sorts of marriages never end well. My last girlfriend was married to a man for 17 years for similar reasons, and left him just before she met me. She acknowledges that it was a horrible mistake. Please, save all of you a lot of heartache and don't go through with it.
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yet another reason to never get married
well, actually it was the manipulation the whole time, so i guess this counts.
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Wow - so many things to ponder. Maybe you will fall in love with the same qualities your daughter has obviously seen.
Maybe you will fall in love with the man that is so good to your kid.
Maybe you will just screw everything & everyone up?!?!
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Sounds like you have so much love for yourself you don't have enough for anyone else. What a high opinion of yourself you have.
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Maybe you'll get luckey and he'll leave you for your daughter.
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You sound like a loser!
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He CAN do better! There is a woman out there who would love him passionately...Maybe he'll find her while you're working, not that you'd care.
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I hope he finds out what a liar you are!
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selfish thoughtless b****! women like you give us real women a bad name. shame shame shame!
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Why do you say he can't do better than you?
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your daughter will resent you.
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This is the person that posted this. I am not smug or selfish. I just want what's best for my daughter and would rather him think I'm passionately in love with him than have her not have a role model. He's an amazing man. And he DOES deserve better, but due to circumstances most women wouldn't pay attention to him...does this clear anything up? I don't want to hurt anyone. Everyone thinks we are passionately in love so I just view it as sacrificing my happiness for my daughter and to avoid breaking his heart.
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I thought the same thing when I met my husband. He's short and dark while I'm younger, tall, light skinned, green eyes, nice body, etc well he ended up cheating on me with a short, dark woman his age.
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OP, I'm still calling bullshit. Your follow-up post changes its tone and tries hard to paint yourself as honorable, but let's sum up your comments, shall we? 1) "The ONLY reason I'm going to marry him is that my daughter loves him." You left out that he's amazing man. 2) "He knows he can never do better." Uh huh. Noooo, that's not smug at all! 3) And worst of all "And he'll treat me like a Queen." Ahhhhh, here's the rub, isn't it. YOU wanted to be treated like a queen. So don't get your back up that we call you smug and selfish (which you are) and now suddenly paint yourself as having some altruistic trait that wants what's best for your DAUGHTER. YOu didn't type "He'll treat my daughter like a Queen." You said he'll treat YOU like a Queen. Let's repeat. SMUG. SELFISH. And let's now add: LIAR, OPPORTUNIST. The End.
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^ And thats a wrap!
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Not at all. And way to go with being judgmental.
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wow, really wish i had some deep meaningful comment for you. I do say, good for you! i think yo are doing the right thing. You'll be cheating on him in a few years, try to rememeber this, don't tell him. have fun but dont hurt him.
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let them eat cake
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lol -- you criticize someone for being judgmental? Honey, if you didn't already KNOW you suck for doing what you're doing, it wouldn't be a secret, and you wouldn't post it here. The fact you did, makes the point -- it's an untold secret because it's mean, dishonorable, and uses people so that you get treated like a queen. This is all about you.
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why don't your daughter marry him if she loves him so much you prissy tampon?
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I fell in love with a man who was in this type of marriage. Five years after she stopped having sex with him, he went looking for an affair and found me. I fell hard for him.
She told him 6 months ago that she was cheating on him and leaving him. He was devastated and ended up leaving me. I know that I deserved it, moral police, but it doesn't mean it didn't almost KILL me.
There will be a cost to others AND yourself. Will it be worth it?
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me too...prissy tampon. hilarious
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sounds like an American story in the making
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I always thought there was nothing worse than a phony until now. After reading your secret I realize there IS something worse than a phony ---an ARROGANT phony!
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get off your high horse, asshole
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Sounds to me like ANY other woman would be better than you. If he went to a prostitute and paid her, at least she would be honest about what she was.
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My 14 yr old daughter convinced me that her coach would be great for me. We did end up getting married. After my daughter left for college I found out he had slept with her more than me. We divorced.It was never me he wanted.
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shame on you b****...you're the reason men say they dislike women. you're a total coward.
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This is my first time on this site and have not taken the time to read the other comments. DO NOT marry someone because your daughter approves. Marry someone thet YOU approve. If the decision is mutual btetween youn your daughter, so be it it. YOU have a right to be happy to.
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