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You knowingly chose to marry the man that molested me as a child. Good job, mom.

You knowingly chose to marry the man that molested me as a child. Good job, mom.

 
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I know what it feels like darkest days of my life thought I would die or worse I'm ok now hope you are too
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She probably had problems too as a kid. SHe needs help and so do you.
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that is sad! i am sorry to hear that your own mother has betrayed you like that!
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Sometimes I envy pets for not having to ever be forced to see their parents again. If I were brave enough, I'd turn my back and never look back. Start fresh, without them pulling me down with their dysfunctions and complete lack of guidance and support. Just unburden my load of them, and fly free as a bird in the sky. But, that is easier said than done, isn't it?
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Start your own family and surround yourself with friends. You don't need her or HIM. That's awful. Bless your heart.
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that is so weak
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just make sure to NOT let YOUR family be anywhere around him OR her. Sounds like she's sell her grandchildren OUT in a heartbeat as well to HIM.
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That's betrayal at it's finest. I'm so sorry.
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I agree that you need to be careful, she needs help, he needs to be locked up. Reformed child molesters are very rare. I'll pray for you.
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Your secret hurts me to the very core of my motherly soul. --I'm so sorry for you. I know you will do your own future children PROUD.
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time to move on with own life ,and leave behind anybody that is that stupid
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Mom had it normalized in her life therefore she was able to condone it in her children's. Break the chain, expose the perv. If the statute of limitations has not run out, put him in jail so he'll think twice before affending again. If the punishment really fit the crime those type of offenders would be spending life sentences, the victims carry it through their whole lives. Get therapy and you will have a place to have your feelings validated and begin to heal.
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Do what ever it takes to guard your heart. Life gets better as it goes on, if you choose. Choose to be an upright person. Choose not to let this make you unlovable and bitter. Choose to not do this to your children. Choose to be happy and smart and beautiful. Sounds like you already are. xoxo
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it takes more than the act of giving birth to be a mom...u will be ok...just pray hard.
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holy f*** what a terrible mother
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