You shouldn't feel guilty. You would be guilty if you hadn't said anything
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It's not your fault.
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You have nothing to feel guilty about but sorry for your loss.
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(I posted the secret) Thank you. What I have found in life is that even when your right you can be so terribly wrong. Something that is so bittersweet it never really goes away. I said those words in anger. Never thinking for a moment that it would be the last thing I ever got to say. I know people make stupid decisions. I have made several myself. Losing him made me take a closer look at my life. And I realized that I never want to feel like that again. Having a fight and leaving things left unsaid... it takes on a WHOLE new meaning and realization. I wish I told him why he needed to grow up. I wish he could have known the void he left in so many peoples lives. I wish I told him to grow up because I cared too much about him and didn't want to lose him. I wish a million things... Instead I yelled and stormed away. We only so many moments, you know? I didn't realize how quickly it can all be taken away. It can happen in the blink of an eye. One moment we are here and the next... It can all be taken away. My guilt comes with a lesson. (One of which I wish wasn't learned by losing someone but usually is.) And I will carry it around with me as a reminder to say the things I need or want to say now, before its too late. Otherwise you are left with guilt. He was young and stupid and aren't we all at one point or another? But he had so much left to do and no time to do it. He will be missed and I will always be sorry for for the things left unsaid. Rarely does a person get to say good bye and I know that too. I just didn't want to end it with that. I don't know if that makes sense or not. Thank you so much for your kind words.
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MY best friend died of sleep apnea leaving his wife, son and parents to grieve for him. The last thing I told him was this. "We're not getting any younger, why don't we get together and lose some weight and you quit that smoking"? He was a long haul truck driver and one day his company noticed that his truch had not moved all day. Police were called and they found that he had died in his sleep. He was not quite 52.
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next time keep your mouth shut dummy
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You can't blame yourself. When god gets ready to call you home no matter where you are..its time. I'm sure he knew he was loved. Kids will be kids and we just have to pray and hope for the best. I hope you find peace and comfort during this time.
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You never know; it may be that he crashed his car on purpose thereby discontinuing his trial with life. I felt like that once. He is not your responsibility. He makes his own decisions and is consequentially responsible for them.
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I feel your pain. This happened not only with my father but my best friend as well. I've learned the lesson...
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I just said this to my boyfriend yesterday. I sent him this link, because i worry about him all the time too...sigh...peace be with you!
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