That's not forgiveness. Forgiveness is when you give up on controlling or punishing that person.
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Who is being punished here?
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me to
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I can relate, this one is powerful.
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Forgiving is not always eough. Sometimes you need to forget.
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Who says that the poster is the one who is making it impossible to talk to the person they forgave? People assume so much shit on these things!!
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me too
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You can forgive somebody and still not be able to handle speaking with them, just as you can can speak with a person you've never forgiven. You assume they are not speaking to the person to punish them- just because they forgive them does not mean the pain is gone.
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forgiving isn't for somebody else, it's for yourself
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Sometimes there are words and acts that strike a person, forever marring the core of the foundation of emotional trust. It is possible to forgive and at the same time sever ties. Forgiveness is given because one truly understands the person and accepts that person's nature as well as one chooses not to dwell in the negative. It is possible to love and never share because one recognizes it is what it is and it is not in our power to change what is not ours to change.
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I think forgiving is BEAUTIFUL...it's when I learned about my lack of tolerance for that 'special' person, nothing fazed me...no thoughts, no emotional ties, no feeling, I felt nothing, that is NOT a good thing to find out about ones self.....I'd would rather forgive, them not care anymore.
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forgive but never forget
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agreed
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"Forgiveness does not make them right but it will set you free"
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Never THOUGHT I could love someone enough to have his children and then HATE him sooo...much. I would not even attend his funeral.
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I forgive my X wife for cheating on me, but I do not forgive her for putting our 8 children through the divorce, and the pain she caused them because they knew she was cheating and she threatened them if they told me.
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I forgave my ex wife but I never want to see her again.
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This is for my sister Marie for all of the hurt you have caused I know it's something sad in you that makes you lie. I hope you heal. I miss you though.
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I love you and I hate you. Forgiveness for me is sometimes.
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It is easy to Forgive,but it takes a long, long,long time to forget!!
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"Sometimes there are words and acts that strike a person, forever marring the core of the foundation of emotional trust. It is possible to forgive and at the same time sever ties. Forgiveness is given because one truly understands the person and accepts that person's nature as well as one chooses not to dwell in the negative. It is possible to love and never share because one recognizes it is what it is and it is not in our power to change what is not ours to change." That was beautiful. Thanks for posting!
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There's someone who was part of my life that I can't forget. I love her with all of my heart. When I think of her, Im still in love with her and its been years and years since we've even seen each other but only a year since we spoke on the phone. It was complicated. But now I want to make it right with my first and only true love and she's doing what your doing. At least the part where she'll never talk to me again...
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Who gives a sh**!!!
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Three posts up; yes, thank you very much for that. Oddly enough it is almost exactly how I have been feeling the last few days. I still love him, and always will. I just hurt beyond belief and trying not to feel it.
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I can't forgive one person in my life. At one point it was easy to forgive but they did the same thing again so fu×× forgiveness.
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I guess that's an untold secret then.
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