You owe it to the child to tell him who his father is (if you know. Your husband deserves the opportunity to decide if he wishes to stay with you, or find someone that will be honest and faithful to him. You are building a false life, destined to fall apart.
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PLEASE, you actually think that if she has let it go this far that she is going to be honest about anything now? slut!
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I agree...You shouldn't tell ANYONE! It would be terribly selfish to tell you Son now. Just deal with it.
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That sucks...
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Agree with the last two suggestions, don't tell. He's taking care of "his" son. If he loves him, why change that and chance your son having no male model in his life? Be a better person in the future and live your life to treat your husband well and live for your son.
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Yes,don't tell them and keep them the most happy people on Earth.And treat your husband like a king.
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yes he does
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I can't imagine being in your position but I would ask myself is this father/son relationship good and are they closely bonded? If so then I would think it was the best decision you could have made.
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Ho, Ho, Ho!
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(1) should this man continue to be Forced (sans the Choice) to continue paying for a child that isn't his; (2) doesn't the Real father have a right to know; and (3) what if your kid ends up needing a transplant or something? what a great time for all this to come up (or would you allow him to die to keep your secret?). you made the choices that weren't yours to make. you now have the choice to make it right.
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b****
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~~so your child might be medically miss diagnosed one day because his/her medical history will not be acurate, what if the biological father has a genetic disease that runs in his family? ~~ when will you tell the child? does the biological father know? ~~~
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thats f***ed up situation. I knew someone like that and when he found out. he shot himself in the head.That kid had many problems after that for many years. It was a no win situation for everyone.some things are best taken to the grave, and some are not .its your concence.
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Wow... No one can give you any advise with that, you have to do it on your own only you know your situation...
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Wrong! Plain wrong. Fix it.
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If this is eating you alive, you need to fess up or it will blow out of you sooner or later. If the child is under 3 yrs. old, you need to set the record straight before any more time goes by. If your husband has been the childs father into his teens, why would you want to destroy what they have. You've got some soul serching to do here. Dover
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How horrible of you! You obviously don't deserve this man! I suggest you never come clean with this "little" secret. It would not only be detrimental for your husband, but for your son as well. Consider yourself a piece of shit!
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Won't he notice that the kid doesn't look quite like his someday? You people seriously act as if a man wouldn't know the difference. That is sad.
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The Man and the Child both deserve to know the truth...unless the real father is unfit to be a father (that doesn't mean just because you don't like him). If he's an abuser, molester, or druggie, I would even say he is better off not knowing the truth.
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this is so unfair to him. to all of you. you should tell him and impower him with a choice. if he is merciful he will stay with your dumbass.
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Are you bragging or wanting to get a burden of your mind?
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SO DO ONE MILLION OTHER MEN IN THE USA.
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