HE WONT CHANGE. GET THE f*** OUT WHILE YOU STILL CAN. YOUR HUSBAND'S NOT A REAL MAN.
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He will NEVER change. Please don't bring a child into it. He will only abuse them, too...and the cycle will continue. Read the book: Why Does He Do That? by Lundy Bancroft, then contact the local domestic violence shelter. You cannot change him, you did not cause the abuse, and you do not deserve it. He is just a monster, and a narcissist. Believe me, I speak from experience and my heart goes out to you.
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Get out, get out, get out now!
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move on.
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Here's a thought to chew on: My mom did the exact same thing, and guess what, I resent her completely. I hate my dad for what he did to her, but I hate her for having me. She never really wanted me, so there was alot of neglect growing up. At least, on the bright side, I grew up VERY independant. Your kid may not be so lucky.
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Then the beatings will really begin - What a great atmosphere for precious child. Yea for you. idiot.
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Get out NOW. It will only get worse...even if you do love him he won't change!! He will always say he is sorry and it will be great for a bit, but trust me, you and him and your relationship is NOT unique...its the same ols song and dance many women (and men) go thru ALL THE TIME
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sure have a kid and let him hit your baby around when he gets frustrated. i think he needs help already and so do you for staying with someone who would hit you. they always say they are sorry and promise to never hit you again but GUESS WHAT....they always do. its because you didnt leave the first time so they know you wont leave when they do it again. unless your into that sort of thing. but whatever you do dont have a baby with his looser ass.
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He can't change. He was born a piece of shit and thats the way he'll die.
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your retarted...leave him
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Please don't bring a baby into this.....Life is too hard and times are too tough.....
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don't you DARE bring a child into this world under those circumstances! a baby deserves a stable home without physical abuse! you're a dumb-ass for even considering having a baby with a man that hits you - are you stupid?
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He hits you and you think he'll change? Bullshit, only thing that will change is he will eventually have a little one to slap around as well. Wake up, and get the hell out of there now before it's too late. IT NEVER GETS BETTER, ONLY WORSE.
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I THINK U PEOPLE ARE SO MEAN CALLING ME STUPID. MAKING IT SEEM LIKE ITS MY FAULT. WE HAVE A KID TOGATHER HES NEVVER HIT HER. HOW RUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUDE
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please do not bring another child into your dysfunctional relationship. even if he never hits your child, that child pays the price for the dysfunction of both her parents
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Please listen to all of these posts!!! He will not change. I've been there and these people proabably have been too. I don't think you're stupid, but you should start telling yourself that you dont need this. Good Luck.
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I think you should leave him because if you already had one child together and he still hits you then obviously he is not gonna change if you have another one.
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Oh Honey if he hits you once and knows he can get away with it..hell do it again. Why would you have a child with him..If and when hell always have acess to your child..when you finally divorce he will have visitation..then what will you do..GET ON BIRTHCONTROL!!!
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OK, lemme get this straight. you want to have a kid w/ hime to get him to change, but just above you said you already have a kid together. if the first one didn't change him, why would a second one? STUPID STUPID STUPID!
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Well its obvious the OP is youngminded idiot. Probably late teens or early 20's and if you snap back and say you're older then that makes you even more of an idiot. Grow up. You don't need us to tell you shouldn't do it. You already know. Shut up and go pack your f***ing bags
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Self defence Let him have it back
he needs help but will never go to get it
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Age has nothing to do with it. You are f***ing pathetic and deserve what you get in life!
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You're right age has nothing to do with it...ppl do this stupid shit all the time doesn't matter what age you are. But usually you're either young enough to make the mistake or old enough to know not to do it but still do it anyway. Like I said..it doesn't take ppl telling her. She'll know when she had enough of his crap..looks like it will be too late by then though since she's in talks of getting preg
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you may not know the child now, but once it's born you will love him/her and Regret that you saddled them with Him for a father.
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Just a couple of questions... Do you want your daughters to grow up thinking getting beaten is normal? Do you want your sons to grow up and beat their girlfriends / wives? This is what your daughter is learning right now. Is that the life you want for her?
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PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE do not get pregnant with this man. PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE contact a domestic violence hotline.
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my x husband hit me as well, and I had my daughter, everything got worse, dont bring a child into something like that, trust me, i got out and would never ever go back...a man like that never EVER changes for anyone or anything
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why the hell would someone ask her why he hits her, and does she hit him, there's one word to describe this man "PUSSY" i'll bet he's never hit a man....COWARD
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if he hits you - it won't matter to him that he will eventually hit the kid too.
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See you on COPS.
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Dumb b****, don't bring a kid into your mess. He will hit the kid too! You know that for a fact he will, and if you do have a baby when he hurts the kid, you are at fault too. Stupid b****es like you in the world, and I am the one who can't get f***ing pregnant!
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First off to the people who are being hateful in response to what is an obvious cry for help you should be ashamed of yourself. It digusts me taht people blame the victim in this type of situation. To the poor soul who posted this.. If you havent left him yet please do. There are people that can help you. EVERYONE deserves to be treated with kindness and respect. In most cases abuse begins or escalates during pregnancy. You deserve better! Please understand its him not you! He does not have an anger management problem, its not because he drinks, or because he loves you so much he gets jealous, or anything else he tells you. Its because HE has problems you ARE better than this.. Please walk away. Get help please
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Thats the key,- get knocked up and his whole outlook will change. He will realize his mistakes, show remorse and you will live happily ever after. You should have done it long ago.
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Okay, here's how you fix it. Ready? You wait til he falls asleep then take a good large cast iron pan and break BOTH his legs...Come after me now, you FUCKER!!!
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Having a baby with an abuser isn't the answer. All you will be doing is presenting him with a new punching bag in a few years. Please find the door in this relationship and leave. Yeah he says he sorry and I'm sure he truly is at the time, but he has anger issues that will cause him to lose control over and over again. Run now while you can I promise you won't regret it! =)
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