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I want to be with someone so bad, but I'm scared to because of my last relationship and its four years of abuse, I don't want it to happen again.

I want to be with someone so bad, but I'm scared to because of my last relationship and its four years of abuse, I don't want it to happen again.

 
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Don't let it happen, at the first sight, get out, keep your own place as a place to be when you don't want to be with them
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It wont happen unless you let it happen again.
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Unfortunately, until you correct the problems that caused you to be and stay in an abusive relationship, parts of that dynamic will continue in other relationships--even if your parter is non-abusive. You need to first work on yourself, then trust that when you truly agree that you deserve good love it will find you!
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It's been almost 18 years since I've been in a relationship. I've been happier alone than miserable just to be in a relationship.
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Love them and leave them, or stay above them.Life is full of hurt, don't be scared. Go out and get your pound of pain.
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I know that feeling. We've all been hurt. But unless we keep sticking our head out and open to someone new, we will always feel alone. Most of us don't want to be alone. We are just afraid of rejection or being lied to or hurt. But meeting someone and feeling that MAGIC even if only for a while.....is worth the risk.
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