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I'm a single mother of a special needs child.  hHe deserves so much more than what I can give him.  But he's the only thing keeping me alive.

I'm a single mother of a special needs child. hHe deserves so much more than what I can give him. But he's the only thing keeping me alive.

 
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this may sound corny, but God gives only special people children like this. He will be a hard work but he is a blessing. stay strong.
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I agree with the above poster. I work with families in your situation. I pray for you all.
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Many blessings to you. You deserve so much credit. God only gives us our share because he knows we are strong enough to handle it. You can do it and are worthy of being loved and admired for it. :)
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if that's him, he looks really happy and soooo cute!!!! ps. god only gives you what you can handle.
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God Bless your soul. You are just like any other mother who feels guilt...just much more. Its normal to feel overwhelmed, there are many, many resources available to your son and to you. Please stay strong and know that you will be the best Mommy you can be and that God is only a whisper away.
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You obviously love your child very much, he's lucky to have you as his mother. Don't worry that you're not "giving" him everything he needs, he has you. Good job.
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He is beautiful.
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http://www.our-kids.org/Archives/Holland.html <~~Read this, it is wonderful. I have a 2 1/2 year old son with Cerebral Palsy and reading this short piece has helped keep me grounded.
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Times are tough..but believe me...every smile he cracks on his lips when he sees your face..every wonderful breathing moment of his life..it's all worth it..and it's because of your love and dedication..go mom!!
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If that's your baby, he's beautiful. If it's not, I know your baby is just as beautiful. What's more beautiful is the fact that you will provide the love and support your child needs :)
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YOU are what he needs. You and your unconditional love. My son has special needs too. God gives special children to those who can handle it, and who will do a good job raising them. Not everyone could do what you are doing for your child. Who cares about money. As long as you have food to eat and a roof over your head, your ok. In the end, all that will matter is you loved him. He will remember you playing with him, and singing to him, and loving him! Not the toys you bought him. I'm so proud of my son, and because he is specail, it makes every accomplishment all that more rewarding. For him and myself. Just be proud of you child and love him. Oh and be patient!! If you give your child your love and your patient with him, he will be rich!!
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why do people say someone is beautiful when they clearly are not? Stupid...
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thanks for telling me my baby's ugly asshole. Thank for your kind words. Everyday is a battle.. he has CP and its really hard. He's only 7 months, so we don't know how involved he will be. I'm praying for the best, but deep down I'm expecting the worse. And the sad thing is, it's a birth injury, so we had no clue he was going to be this way
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I just read that Welcome to Holland story.. and I cried.. thank you
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I wish you and your child the best of everything. I am sorry things are tough. You will get through it. God bless!
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To this beautiful babys mommy! I just wanted to tell you that I am praying for your little one...God will take care of things and in time life will get easier...think positive and don't even bother responding to jerks like the 4th poster up...they are not worth one ounce of your time or energy! Your baby is beautiful!!
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talk to your local social service office- they will know what programs available in your area. Be a better MOM-
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Your child is GORGEOUS and he is very lucky to have YOU for his Mom! Keep your head up and your eyes focused. All this little man needs is his Mommy to love him and cherish him and be there for him. Nothing else matters. Good luck and God Bless you and your amazing, adorable little guy!
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This makes you a superhero. You ate officially named INCREDIMOM. If you need anything_ask, tis yours.
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Your baby is beautiful, just like you are. Continue to be the wonderful mother you are, and NEVER EVER let anyone tell you any different. They will never be half the person/mother you are and that just pisses them off. Keep it up honey, and stay strong for not only that baby, but yourself!
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