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You were with me when you were in your 20's. I would have married you. You are married to him now and are much fatter. Feels like I dodged a bullet.

You were with me when you were in your 20's. I would have married you. You are married to him now and are much fatter. Feels like I dodged a bullet.

 
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wow your a very shallow person,i think it's her that dodged it.
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Actually, you were probably wiser than you knew, and maybe sensed that she would get fat and lazy?
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Fat people are not necessarl lazy...in fact they may be so busy doing things for other people that they don't have a moment to spare and have to eat what they can when they can...so don't assume that this woman is lazy...and to the poster...you probally don't deserve her anyway! Oh and no I am not fat...I just dont like mean people!!!
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You sound like an ass that she didn't deserve. Are you married? I bet your still looking for that perfect woman aren't you? I have an uncle like you. After 3 divorces he sits in his big house all alone. Day after day. If you call, he is so lonely your on the phone for an hour. Good luck!
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Now that's funny as hell...
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Ok. She's fat. But she could conceivably be happy, crazy in love with her husband, have a grip of kids and a decent sex life. However, if she were miserable, drug addicted, but skinny YOU would be the loser instead of her? Weird how we all equate fat with being lazy and miserable and quate thin with being exciting, fun and sexy. We're stupid.
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Todd?
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dodged a bullet for sure. who wants to be married to a piggie?
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From the poster: No I am not shallow, I just dont think it fair that I take perfect care of myself and work out to make sure I look the best that I can for my woman. It's not fair that my lover would let herself go just because she now has a ring. That is what she did to her new husband. (who by the way is a doppelganger of me)
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FAT,FAT,FAT,FAT,FAT!!!!!
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My husband married me when I weighed 125 pounds. He was with me all the way up to my highest weight, 335, and back down. Never ONCE in 20 years has he been as nasty as you were in the few sentences in your post. The sex has ALWAYS been great, we are happy (and now healthy) because he loves me for who I am...not what I look like. Shallow or unfair, OP...you are not a good man.
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two words, stretch marks...
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one above^ two words, little dick...
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OP: I understand what you mean about "taking care of yourself" but what are you like as a person, on the inside? Have you taken half as much care of that? My guess is no. Because if you had, we wouldn't all be here discussing this.
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If someone is fat, they are miserable. If they say they aren't they are in denial. The OP is right.. if you are in shape, u don't want to be boinkin a fat person.
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people who are saying you are a jerk and have no heart are fat
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So its ok to be fat now or cool? Well lets go for a run or a bike ride. Can you play ball with your kids Dover
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^same thoughts I had,well done one up.
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U suck. all the working out won't leep you from being a miserable bastard. If you were happy in your own life, you wouldn't have noticed or cared what she'd done with her weight. If you were happy, you'd just be happy for her. Don't use her weight to make you feel better as a person. YOU STILL SUCK ASS :o)
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I 100% agree with the above post!!
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good job!
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I am not as skinny as befor because I am not on the pills. Do I think of you every day " Yes" Why did I marry him because he wasnt you. Now I am 35 years old and happy. He isnt you. You married your wife because she wasnt me. But what ever you told her. You told me first. Oh by the way how is your truck? Sorry I started it on fire.
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After the hotel fire you were different. We should have gone for counseling, we were too young to handle that much stress. You came home from work and I could see her in your eyes, so I let you go, but we got back together, was never the same. Months after I married him you called me, but she was already living with you. He was indifferent to me. He was so awful in bed we stopped having sex. That's when I started to eat. Then he would say mean things and I would dream of the life I gave up with you, and I ate some more. No one could punish me more than I punish myself for the bad choices I've made. I am eating now.
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I wasted almost ten years off and on a woman who had no use for me except to kill time. (My bad!) She broke an ankle skiing, had to take steroids, and mushroomed up to almost three hundred pounds. I totally understand the "Dodged the bullet" feeling!
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