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i was drugged and raped in college and i never told anyone because i didn't want to be "that girl who got drugged and raped"

i was drugged and raped in college and i never told anyone because i didn't want to be "that girl who got drugged and raped"

 
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Yeah your right I was that girl, it sucks your friends never forget.
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Hey I know you
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i know the feeling. i was too, 3x
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I am sorry mau God send blessings your way
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You need to seek help, do you have boy friends ? Are you a man hater ?soon to be serial killer type
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I am so sorry for you. I didnt want to be that girl either, but you have to talk to somebody before it eats you alive.
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This person needs help and knows it. She has taken a first step in acknowledging it. You were the victim of a CRIME. There is some free help out there available. You can call a local mental health hotline, if you have healthplan, there are usally confidential assistance programs available with them. Just talking to someone can help. Hang in there lady, and know that you REALLY are LOVED by others.
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This happened to a dear friend of mine. She kept it inside for years without telling anyone. One day while we were talking about something completely different, she just blurted out what happened to her back then. Both of us were shocked I think. She said that she didn't know why she told me, but I'm glad she did. I love her so much, and I hate that someone hurt her like this, for all these years. She did nothing wrong to deserve this private suffering, and neither did you. Yu gotta talk to someone about it. Trust me on this.
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Some people live better with secrets. just don't let it eat you up.
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sorry to here that is everything ok know
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So some jerk got over on you. It's not that big a deal. How ever bad it is being "that girl", it's worse being known as the kind of guy that would do this.
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I was dumbfounded to learn how many girls I was friends with in college had this happen to them. If I ever came face to face with a "man" that had done this, I'd knock him straight on his a** and piss in his face. There are good men in this world. I know. I am one of them. From what I have seen from my friends that this happened to, my advice is this: Don't hold it in anymore. Tell someone, anyone you love and trust. Just saying it out loud will help. Good luck to you, and remember. There are better days ahead.
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Well, you ARE that girl. But you don't have to live with it alone, and there is help available if you seek it. Go seek it girl, you deserve some closure, and the guy that did that deserves to have his cock surgically removed.
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You are not alone, darling. There are people who can help you deal with the things you are going through. Part of the healing process is letting someone know who will support you in your recovery. You are not diminished by the events from the past, unless you choose to see yourself this way. Don't do this, and don't keep it all inside. Get your life back.
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I hope that your pain will ease and that you will find a healthy way to deal with this :)
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That seems like savvy thinking to me.
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I am a man and many times am thoroughly disgusted with how we treat women.
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This happened to me too but I wasn't drugged and it was 2 guys a knew. I was 14 and a virgin. I spent the better part of my teens and early 20's trying to "re-create" the situation so I could gain the upper hand and be in control,most of the time I was but it never fixed me...I became an alcoholic and drug addict. It took therapy and AA to finally fix what was inside of me...7 yrs sober now... I feel for you girl I really do. Hang in, seek prof. Help bc you are so worth it.
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I am that girl too. I got pregnant and miscarried. I never told my parents about any of it...they would never understand
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always tell nobody would of looked at you in a bad manner. it was not your fault you not admitting it allows it to happen to another please do not feel ashamed dear
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Jaime, is that you????
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That happened to me in high school. We lived in a small town, and he was a "popular" boy. I didn't think anyone would believe me, and I would be "that girl". I feel your pain.
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I would hold that guy down so you could sodomize him. I hate punks like that, I always hear of them and it gets me upset. Just once, I would love to pay them a visit...6'250lbs. Sorry that happened, wish I could have been there to stop it
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There is nothing wrong with you. You didn't ask to be raped he is the bastard that stold sex from you. You should hold your head high you did nothing wrong other than bring in the wrong place at the wrong time. I wish you the best and may god give you peace and joy. Love Wes
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That's the excuse you always hear afterward when they realize they were a whore and are ashamed of themselves!
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