And give him hell for no reason, I'd leave too if not for the kid!
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Self-pity is so unattractive...
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I have to tell you that men get tired of this crap. He said he isn't there just for your son. What do you want it writen in the news paper or something. Now get the f*** over it and move on.
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Talk him at his word.
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1 up Dude what the f$ck?
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Thanks for all the negative comments. No, I don't b**** all the time. Perhaps if I were married to you I would though. Nothing like kickin' someone when they are down, huh?
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First Impressions of the heart can be masked by thoughts of questions and depositions.
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The assholes on here are probably woman beaters who's wife hates them. I understand where you are coming from...children bond us together and honestly if people were honest with themselves 60% of people are probably together because of the kids. Hang in there.
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To the last poster. You must be retarded. Where in hell did you get a number like 60%? Just because you are in a bad relationship doesn't mean that most people are. And disagreeing with you doesn't make some one a wife beater.
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It isn't self-pity at all; that is just how I feel. I knew I shouldn't of posted it.
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I understand how you feel, ignore all the negative comments, they come and they go. The one thing you can never control in life is your feelings, no matter how small or insignificant to others they may be. Never apoligize for how you feel about something. Who cares about the comments, at least you were able to come to a place and GET IT OUT!
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It IS self-pity. Simply be the best person you know to be. You can't control your husband, but you sure as hell can control you. Quit feeling sorry for yourself and be awesome. Then, if he's fool enough to leave you, you're great on your own! Life is too short to be miserable. You can CHOOSE to be happy, ya know? Try it! (o:
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Yes. he is just with you for your son... and funny thing is - your whole family agrees with him. [if you're who I think you are.] I feel guilty for keeping the secret, and i feel worse because I agree - he needs to leave you.
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Yes, he is only with you for the kids. So now what? Have you thought about that possibility in detail?
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To the person who thinks they know who I am, you are wrong. My family would never think that and I know this for a fact. I was just having a bad day when I wrote this secret. It isn't something that consumes or that I think about often.
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You may never know. But most likely, everyone's life will be easier if you can find it in yourself to shrug your shoulders, stop worrying about it and just carry on being the best mom/wife you can be. In most cases that ought to help bring out the best in your children and husband.
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Thank you for all the positive comments!! I do try at being the best wife/mom I can be; and he tells me I am this.
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