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I am very shy around women. A lot of it is because they want a man with money, hair, body, and a big p****. I wish they would love me for me.

I am very shy around women. A lot of it is because they want a man with money, hair, body, and a big p****. I wish they would love me for me.

 
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its always the third thing.
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Some women just want someone to love them. Maybe your looking at the wrong women?
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At least try to have one out of four. You can try to make more money, get a hair transplant, diet and work out, but the big p...., well that one can't be fixed.
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Maybe you're just picky, I know I am. (I get women) I am going bald, have a hearing problem with my right ear and I'm kinda broke at times, but I still get women. Its all in the way you aproach and treat them.
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It's all about confidence & conversaiton.
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you need to stop putting the pussy on a pedistal, and change how you think woman percieve men, I used to think that too, but when i got older and more confident in myself women started responding to me, confidence brother, that's what it's all about
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Nope, we love big $$ and big Dick$.
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Only shallow women love money and big schlongs if I were you dude I would look where you aren't looking
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Most women are like that. f*** 'em. Just stop trying. Get a hobby.
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get more money, that is key..
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i only date men who are conventionally undesirable for 1 reason- they treat me much better and i know they know they cant do any better
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A lot, if not virtually all, of men want a woman who is young, slender and pretty. There's no point in agonizing over it, it's simply the way people are. We all do our best in this mostly shallow world.
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I guess I should answer this secret with revealing another one. All we care about is the $ the rest we can get elsewhere behind your back.
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To the above poster with her supposed secret, I'm going to reveal one to you. All we care about is your looks. As we gae, we gain more $$ and more prestige, as you age, you turn into that old slut at the bar that smells like gin and virginia slims. Stupid b****.
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The money, the weiner, the manly physique and Jesus hair all these things are gravy, player. The problem is the first thing you mentioned, the shyness. Get out there and talk to women you DO feel comfortable conversing with, then gradually work your way up to broads you're attracted to. Don't be shy, man, you've got nothing to lose and remember Practice Makes Perfect. And to the mean lady that posted that comment about money.. That's ridiculous. Why are you so cold and bitter as to kick the poor man when he's down?
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Dude, I'm the same as you. I still found my true love. If someone can't just love you for you, than you're approaching the women that are just destined to be unhappy with anything. Think simple women. They wind up being the best...trust me.
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I love my fiancee dearly and he is fat, hairy, going gray at 27, poor, and "short". He treats me great and is my best friend. You'd be surprised.
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There is something called "charm". No amount of money or physical attributes will be able to replace that. The superficial will play itself out in the end. Go with your heart, connect with someone who you "get" and who "gets you". It's that simple.
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I was working towards a PhD and a model as well as someone who loved children, to cook, to do laundry, and what is called a "social entrepenuer". I married a man who I thought loved "me" but he wanted my money & my inheritance, me to get him a degree online (I said no), my looks to make him feel good, and he thought I liked his body & his big p - well... I would rather have a small p, a nice man, a comfortable life with a real man who provides, and I don't care about their hair or how they look. My husband is 12+ years older than me. If I could do it all over again, I would have met someone online and put a fake picture up to see if they really liked me for me. Someone using you is no fun. And it took me awhile to realize that this guy I thought was "nice" was a user like that as well as moody, mean, violent, liar, adulter, and a con. Or another place to meet the "right" one would have been doing a hobby that I really enjoyed - a more "un-glamerous" one. I do photography, wood-working, ceramics, wood-working, and love to go to the beach. I know I would find a better spouse birding than at the beach or with my camera - unfortunately, due to being burned - I would probably hide all my accounts, assets, & potential family information in the future, if I am widowed but I am still in my 20s. Too bad the "right one" might not get to have me during my best years.
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i love a man for loving me and the intelligence from his mouth, i leave him for ignoring me.
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ps i loved someone who had/has acne a lazy eye and a delivery driver, none of that mattered until he abandoned me. F"*^ him cause i'd still be with him if he wanted
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I feel the same somewhat.
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I spoil my b****es rotten with cash and my big dong.
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Your looking at the wrong women. Many of us are willing to live in a tent with the right guy. We are not all materialistic..and most of us do not like big p****. we want to find our best friend the guy who fits us. she is out there
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Get your confidence back. Read more, workout, and smile at hot chicks even though you're scared to death of them. Be super nice to fat and ugly chicks, they have hot friends. You'll get there bro...
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"You don't have a body? " AHSL;FAKSJDFKL; best comment ever
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you don't have any of those??? sucks being you
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yeah, I'm gay too.
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WORK OUT! There's one down. Confidence will come. That's 2. Hair doesn't matter. Neither does a big cock. Not to a 'real' woman. Men just think so, who have them.
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$ is nice, but so is a 'real' guy. $ doesn't make that, nor does having hair or a big prick.Most big pricks are attached to the same, so who wants that? Everyone can do something about their body. Work at it.
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To the 20 gal. DIVORCE! HELLO? JUST DO IT!OP...Pay attention to the above 2 comments.
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THOSE THINGS ARE WHAT MAKE YOU, YOU. you get money as a reward for vision, drive, and ambition. Your body is a reflection of self satisfaction/worth, the hair is a changing style to where you fit in, and the big P, well that's dif, and not every one wants a big one.
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If you could love a woman for being herself as well, then you get out there and find happiness, but if you want a blonde gig boobed perfect 24 year old, not happening!
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Shower farts are the worst...
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You didn't specify your age. Very few women under 30 are capable of appreciating the importance of integrity, humour, kindness, etc. With maturity women become more rational in their criteria. As for looks... having been married to someone whom I did not find attractive (I thought I was "above" being "superficial"), I can report that becoming romantically involved in the absence of adequate physical attraction is a recipe for misery for everyone. However, you have some control over this. Eating healthfully (avoid processed foods and take out food, and eat only nutrient rich foods) will vastly improve your health and body - depending upon your discipline (just because there are free donuts / cookies / cake for a party at your office does NOT mean you have to eat some, not matter what anyone else says), far more than most people realize is possible. It will also radically improve your self esteem. Do some research on "nutrient rich foods". Also, although they're not free, hair transplants are affordable to most people. Dressing neatly and stylishly is also important to women, even if you think they should be able to look past these things. Your choice - bemoan the facts, or adapt and try to present yourself in the most attractive manner possible. Not every woman demands a big wallet or p*nis. Wish you well.
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Looks are subjective, but if you are confident others will see your beauty. Did they really censor penis? LOL
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