Age is just a number. I had sex with a guy that my dad went to high school school with when I was 18. (and had the biggest crush on him too) If she wants you go for it. Unless shes mental or something. Um yeah make sure of that part first.
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Aren't ALL women f***in' mental?
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So.. What you are saying is... Your GAY!
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I think you should read your post...a few times out loud (shout the part "my 20yr old neighbor")...and you'll have your answer!
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Please do not have any children unless you are married or in a committed relationship.One more thing, she is too young to have a baby.
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So you want to pay child support for the next 22 years (they'll nail you for his/her college tuition too). Are you f***ing nuts? You're 43 f***ing years old!! You should have had a vasectomy years ago.
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I agree with the post who said she is to young. I had my son when I was 34, and if I had him at 20, I wouldn't be half the mom I am today. At 20 your still a child. Your 43 don't you remember??!!! SERIOUSLY Will you men do anything to get laid??
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To the comments who say too young: just because you couldnt manage to be half what plenty young women have been for years doesnt apply to everyone, not exactly applying to this woman though but not my point! Do you realize that most of your grandmothers or even your mother had her first child before she was 20! Though maybe you are from a city of suburb so your teens are immature, ignorant, selfish, greedy oh i could go on! And I bet that most of you have one or maybe two kids. I am proud to come from a large family and my grandma was married at 16 and her and my grandpa had my uncle not a year later, they had eight kids and were wonderful parents because they had values and had love for each other and all of their children so may be some day you will look back in history and realize that everyone is not like you! Lord I would love to meet you people face to face but then you might not have the guts to say a word when you see me with my kids and my nephew that I took on because he needed some one, when I was 15. (yes I am saying that even my family tree is flawed with selfishness but the tree is not entirely diseased) And you need to recognize this about women. Some do not deserve it at all, and some were ready the day they were born.(figuratively)
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Really....I'd pass sounds a bit messed up!
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Please consider the child....you'd be putting another kid into the world who starts out at a disadvantage, not having a real father or parents who love each other and can model love for him/her. And the second mom wants to pick up and move or not have you around anymore, you'll have NO recourse, no way to ever see the child regardless of your wishes. Having a baby with the neighbor is NOT the same as having a child!!
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Dude, she'll hit you up for child support and then get a boyfriend her own age who will live with her and essentially raise your child. You won't get to be a dad this way! Better to be a great uncle to your nieces and nephews, or even donate time to a mentoring program like Big Brother. There are many ways to parent without biologically being one!
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To OP: If your main consern is age and conception, i.e. a child with health issues, then don't worry. You can have your sperm spun and tested. If you are looking to go the traditional route of conception here is a boost. My husband and I didn't start having kids till he was in his early 40's. We have 3 that are the picture of health, the last one is just turning 1 and my husband just turned 49.
PS I 16 years younger than him.
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when did 20 become too young to have children? remember when the life expectancy of a human was 40?? do you think people waited until their thirties to have babies?? people were betrothed at the age of 14 for cryin' out loud. d
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You are not to old, just remember.. once you do it, you can't take it back. And a kid is a LIFELONG responsibility. What if she says you raped her? or what if she is just looking for a free check? I would think long and hard on it and if you have one single doubt, don't do it.
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Well if you've had a vasectomy.....don't tell her and just bang the hell out of her for awhile.
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I think this is a terrible idea! Not because you're too old, but this is going to be one big mess. I see alot of heartbreak ahead for you if you go through with this. And the kid! The poor kid being born into this! Don't do it!
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There is no age that is too young. I know of someone who had a baby at age 15 and is one of the successfull people I know. I know another person who had a baby at 31 and is the worst mother I have ever seen. Age is nothing but a number!!
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You most definately are to old. When that kid is 15 you will be 58 and won't have the patients to put up with his shit.
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^ Nope, he won't have the patients. But a 58yo man will beat the 15yo f***er into shape like it's supposed to be done!
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And the children and the flowers are my sisters and my brothers, their laughter and their lovliness could clear a cloudy day, and the song that I am singing is a prayer for none believers, come and stand beside us, we can find another way. If you understand this: have the child, love the child, understand the child, they are are only hope.
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Scam Scam Scam! Don't do it!!!!!
20 Year olds don't know wtf that they are thinking about. And she'll rape you for money later on. Just so she can get a freeride. It's not that you are too old. USE that to your advantage man.
And my parents were older when they had me. I have a lot of sibblings though, and my papa had NO problem kicking the shit out of us when we messed up.
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For all of you who wrote... Yes she is a knock out. 5'6 120# c/d breasts... I want kids. I want to be a dad. I'm great with kids. I'm not gay. I just went through a bad divorce and I feel old. I have so many broken bones on my body from accidents and falls over the years. I would love the child even if she left... but I just don't know if I physically could keep up... Think about it. I will be retired when the kid gets to college.
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my husband is 53, im 37, our precious daughter is 4...as long as you are a true father, you are NEVER too old!
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I would not do this if I were you. However, I'd tap that ass, just be sure to have your jimmy on. Your choice.
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Thge problem is not that you are "too old" (You're not!), the problem is that you will be responsible for supporting this child until you are close to seventy! If that's not an issue for you, then go for it!
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