I am in the same boat. I am a dude. 38 ys young. Where ya live?
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i agree. i'm in a relationship and when i tell my boyfriend that the old is getting boring and i want to try something new all he manages to say is "well whats left? nothing really" thats a lie, we havent done that much interesting/fun/spontaneous stuff!
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Wish I could help! Your guy isn't too lazy, he just has no imagination.
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I always wanted an Italian lover! Where are you? Only problem, seems the Italians are a bit on the jealous, possestive side, kinda scary.
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have an affair or leave his sorry ass, apparently he takes what he has for granted and doesn't even deserve you.
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Unless there is abuse or cheating...you should always try to work it out. I'm sure there are other family members, if you cheat and he finds out, it causes so many more problems. Where are the morals people, cheating is never the answer.
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This is my secret. We have two little kids and I can't stand the thought of breaking up their home for sex. We are great in every other way but this one. It's always over in the span of about a minute. He is now trying to blame his vasectomy. Sad thing is I'm only 24 and he is 28 so it isn't like the urge is gone. The kids aren't the issue either there are plenty of chances to have sex and we actually have sex more than a lot of married people but I never get anything from it if I don't do it myself. And when I suggest something different he says he's tired.
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I know that feeling... What's with the site at the above post? Why do people post that?
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right? You dont cheat. I at least if you love him. If Youre that unhappy just leave or get a really good toy. I am spoiled and get both. : ) TT
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while having sex with him, think about it being someone and the way you want it to feel , get taken care of not cheating but you mind get's you off,
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masturbation can be funnnnnnnnn and very releiving :)
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I respect you so much for not cheating. See a sex therapist they can help.
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You deserve to be happy... try cheating. Or talk to him first. If the lazy ass still doesn't TRY, go ahead and have some fun. My husband cheated on me, the bastard! I get to cheat on him because "fair is fair". Unlike my husband, I have no interest in looking for someone else. But, if something comes along. He made me miserable by choosing someone else & lying. I'm not immoral, or SELFISH like he is. MAKE YOURSELF HAPPY.
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Why not ask him about an open relationship? If he realizes the lengths you are willing to go to, maybe he'll be more eager to do what is necessary to keep you.
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I am in the same boat. My husb wears womens panties, bras, etc, gowns to bed. I tell him it is sexy, but it is retarted. He has NEVER given me oral sex, never sucked my breast. He just lays there, and I do it all, and I do it just to get it over with. We have only been togther 3 years,kinda sad.......
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damn!!
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Do what you need to do. Give yourself a list of priorities and exhaust all of them in order, putting cheating at the bottom.
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My sex life is non-existent...Im almost 40...
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I am in this same exact boat and have been talking for three years now about an open relationship. I have fantasies that my husband just isn't into (sub/dom relationships for instance). He tries but it's not genuine and that's not a turn on. I'd consider myself somewhat freaky and him rather conservative. I want to explore with both men and women...particularly women. I've tried to "bring the freak out of him" but alas have realized it's just not going to happen. But to deny myself these things...I worry what that will mean down the road-- cheating likely. So we've openly talked about this for some time although I have yet to meet anyone willing to go at my pace, who isn't married (without permission) or who doesn't think I'm full of shit that I am a happily married woman who has a great sex life but wants more.
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