*****RESPONSE: You've sent so many of these secrets. I have a son and don't know what I would do if I had to bury him. God only knows what you are going through.
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i love you!
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I have an older sister who had a still-born baby at 21 years old. She lost her youngest son in a car accident when he was 13. Her youngest daughter drank herself to death at 33 and her husband died at 40 of heart failure. She is now 73 and one of the toughest, most positive and vibrant people I know. You are strong or you'd be gone already. The pain will never pass but it will lessen. You need to continue on for the sake of all those who love you, to give them strength and in memory of that precious little boy. Maybe you are destined to have another, take heart, all things happen for a reason.
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God Bless you.
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I will pray for you and know that you and your children will be together again.
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Being a father who lost his youngest son and was the one to carry his coffin, I feel your pain. I am still here because I have two older boys to look out for. The pain never leaves...but God gave me two other blessings to look out for. They keep me rooted here and as for their little brother, he is in my heart and with them at all times. You will make it. Have faith in God and love those around you who still need you. God Bless You.
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THANKS for the comments. i know im still here for a reason which is why I am here. It doesnt make me any less saddened.
To the top poster RESPONSE... Last night was the first time I have been to this site so you have the wrong person. That was my onlt post here.
I am sorry for your loss and that you had to carry the coffin. I know your pain.
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Bless your heart. I'm so sorry.
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I can't imagine, how sad. I'm sorry for your loss, please join a support group and reach out to others. God Bless You.
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I am so sorry. You are living my biggest fear. I will pray for you. I agree with the post that said God doesn't give you more than you can handle. I will pray for you. God Bless
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The above poster is giving poor advice. Suicide is not the way to handle this. Get another child. Get pregnant again or adopt a child. Your son wouldn't want you to die.
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I lost a son in 2000. I thought I wouldnt breathe for 2 years. But I did. I am here. Life is good even though there is an empty spot forever. I will never forget, but I now smile at the time we had together. Stay strong. Day by day. Scream, cry, tell us over and over again how mad you are, how hurt, how you feel cheated, how you cant go on, then you will. I promise.
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My son died in 98. I still had an older daughter to care for, and have since had another daughter. I love them dearly, and to this day fear I could lose them at any time. But I still tell them to take chances and live. You don't have to be strong. Or anything else. Just survive it. The first two years are the worst. Hugs and strength to you.
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Children grow up in heaven. You son is safe and happy. Try to celebrate the time you had with him and enjoy the memories he gave you. Death is part of life and life is a celebration. I know its unbearable for you but your son is fine.
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i can't even begin to imagine what you're going through. I'm so sorry for your loss.
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Like another post wrote, YOU ARE STRONG, because you are here and you've shared your pain !! I would never pretend to know what you are going thru, just know that you are NOT alone !! Please remember and cherish the time you had with him. Another bright star was needed above to help you along this path and it is him !! He will always be around you, ALWAYS !! I am so very sorry that you can't see him or feel him, but he IS there !!
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Know that your son is in a better place. Give him the respect to find peace. Love him in your heart and he will always be with you. It isn't your time yet. Talk to someone.
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The pain will lessen.
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God needed another angel..he chose him. He now knows true happiness and wants you to go on. My daughter inlaw who we loved so much passed at 29 and left two sons. God gave us memories to cheerish. She is always with us...we feel her presence everyday. Your son will be happy for you to go on. Be strong in his faith he has in you. He chose you for a mom and you will forever be his..peace be with you.
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I'm so sorry. I hope never to know the pain you feel and also that your pain will fade.
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Your pain won't fade. It's more like a wound that will never heal. But your heart will build a wall around that wound, protecting you from the pain. It takes time and even 13 years later there will be times, for no reason sometimes, that the pain is just as fresh as the day it first happened. But you will go minutes, then hours, then days, then even weeks without praying to be with him. It will happen. Blessings to you.
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