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My husband doesnt want kids, but I secretly try to get pregnant so I wouldnt feel so alone anymore.

My husband doesnt want kids, but I secretly try to get pregnant so I wouldnt feel so alone anymore.

 
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Can I ask you something? Didn't you and your husband discuss this prior to your being married? And what was said at that time?
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You're stupid for wanting a kid because you're lonely. Get a dog. Don't subject a child to being unwanted by his father just because of your loneliness.
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Real nice. Bring an kid into the world where his father doesn;t want him. What's the matter with you!?!?
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that's a terrible thing to do to someone.
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don't be stupid!! Kids don't make anything better!! Esp. if the dad wants nothing to do with it!! Just b/c you have a child, doesn't mean he will! Be SMART get a PET!!!!
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i think the above comments say it all, dont be a b****!
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God, think of how much it's gonna suck to be your kid...strapped with the task of trying to keep mommy happy and whole. My prayers go out to the kid who has to grow up with that burden PLUS a dad who doesn't want him/her.
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Im with the first commentor here.... did you know before you got married that your then bf didn't want kids? That is very wrong and selfish to do that to your husband. I know gals who say that guys don't know what they want and to just get pregnant and then the guys will be glad he has a kid. But I don't agree. He has a reason to not want children. You have no respect for him to ignore his wants or want not's in life. If you want children that bad tell him and if he still doesn't want them then leave him and find someone who does... or better yet.... like the other commentors say..... get a pet....
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I am that kid.
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selfish if you want kids then make the right choice and tell your husband you want a divorce.
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Maybe you secretly want to leave him, and stick him with a pile of child support. Don't be a child support scumbag like so many sluts out there, and stick a man with an unwanted child for personal gain.
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I am a woman, and I have to say that I think this is just about the LOWEST thing a woman can do to a man. If you want a baby, make your husband part of that decision or end the relationship and find a man who wants to start a family with you. Don't try to 'trap' someone with a child he didn't want!
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This is going to end VERY badly for EVERYONE, especially the child. Please don't do this.
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