Oh my goodness Im sorry:( I hope he does love you I mean why wouldnt he your his wife and you had his baby. If he doesnt love you guys its his loss not yours just focus on loving your baby.
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he should love you! Why would he want you to abort? Did he not want children or is he just a real big a******?!
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I'm the poster - he thought that it was bad timing financially, but she turned out beautiful and perfectly timed really. I'm just scared to tell him that I lied originally, afraid that he will leave, I didn't get pregnant on purpose, we have an older child too, so its not like I did it to get him to stay. We had planned on having a second child a year from the time I got pregnant. I am pro choice, but it wasn't a choice I could make.
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I don't think your are ever really financially ready. He should be thankful for a health family. So what you had a child a year before you planned. At least you can have children. I think you made the right decision, and if you don't tell him you shouldn't loose sleep over it.
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I volunteer in a crisis pregnancy center do you knwo the effects of abortions and the procceedures. YOU DONT NEED HIM IF HE WANTS YOU TO MURDER YOUR BABY GOD PREDESTINED TO BE YOURS IN THE FIRST PLACE Find a crisis pregnancy center near you !!
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You did the right thing sweetie.
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What he doesn't know isn't going to hurt him. Cherish that little one everyday. He might not understand how lucky he really is.I
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Don't tell him, he loves you i was married 5 years before my boy was born. I always said we're not ready until i finally realized i was waiting for nothing.
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You did the right thing
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Why give a rat's rump about his "Love"? - Sound like a selfish jerk - Make sure he pays the bills & addresses you in a proper manner, on your schedule, then when said baby is out of the house dump the jerk - There are a few men left in the world that would take you in with joy
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The decision to have the child is the best decision a lady can make, all other decisions equate to murder 1. It really is a crime in the eyes of God Almighty and he is alive and well, however I am certain he is grieved beyond our comprehension. The poster came back on and stated: "I am pro choice, but it wasn't a choice I could make." Now I have but final thought: HOW IS IT THAT YOU ARE PRO-CHOICE???? the life of a child is at stake and if you could not kill your child why would one vote for laws for the weak minded to kill theirs!!!! That law on OUR books brings Righteous Judgment on Our Nation. Everyone wants to ask God to bless our Nation, He has blessed our nation beyond measure, maybe we should quite killing our Gift from Him so that the calamity that is coming on of will be reversed. Just a thought of truth, not a sermon.
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Tell him he's an idiot. There's nothing else out there for him.
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thumbs down....rearing a child take two like minds. how dare you deceive him and expect things to be right. that is pretty selfish.
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"My wife was carrying but I never thought it was really hers!~"
whose would it be ?
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That is so sad, there are so many people out there that would give anything to have a baby!
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For all you pro-lifers: you don't seem to mind animals being murdered painfully and they are right here looking at you. Stop your hot air you are warming the planet.
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If he doesn't love you both, he's an idiot. Try going away for awhile, make him miss you both for awhile. Perhaps he feels bad for asking you to abort?
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if he loved you he wouldn't have considered murdering your flesh and blood
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LEAVE HIM !!!!!! YOU DID THE RIGHT THING !!!!!
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Keeping your child is the right decision. Who gives a f*** if he loves you as long as you love your child.
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don't matter I love you
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