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I'm afraid of being abandoned...thanks mom and dad. He loves me but I know that if you could leave me, so could he.....

I'm afraid of being abandoned...thanks mom and dad. He loves me but I know that if you could leave me, so could he.....

 
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I know how you feel not to trust anyone even though you want to so bad. People don't understand. But you won't know unless you give him everything. Then if he truely loves you; you will have the greatest love you will ever know. Then your fears will melt away:-) Good Luck xoxo
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If it's meant to be.... everything will work out...if not move on...don't live in fear...try ...try...try..and if that doesn't work...try some more...you can
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Anyone could leave. The bad ones and the good ones. Be happy you have someone who you care about enough that you don't want to leave... Not trying to be mean, just kind of blunt. :)
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I love a girl, I am afraid everyone will abandon me. 4 hours after we got into a fight, she was kissing her ex boyfriend in a bar and I saw her. She still thinks I love her, but I don't know if I can. Secretly, I want to win her back, so I can do to her what she did to me.
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you need to learn to love yourself first- so your happiness doesnt depend on outside sources
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have faith it will last and if it doesnt it wasnt ment to be
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Keep your guard up, nothing last forever.
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You will be abandoned if you don't open yourself up to his love. Throw yourself into it completely. "Approach Love and Cooking with reckless abandon." If you hold back, you will cause the problems, darling. Like jumping over a small crevasse - you will fail to make it only if you take a timid step.
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and he did
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Sometimes you have to cut your ties and fears of the past and give the present everything that you have. When you can do that, people will surprise you.
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My wife had abandonment issues. So she cheated on me. When she thought I'd leave her anyway, she left me and THEN told me she cheated. I wanted her to come back but it was too late, she would never believe that I actually would forgive her. Woman if you love this man you better learn to trust that just because your parents left you doesnt mean that he will...trust him. Otherwise you hella suck.
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Enjoy the time you have together, don't sweat the small stuff, relish every minute and every hug. Don't let your insecurities overpower your love, or you will lose. Invest time in yourself and things you enjoy...that will help fill your worry time.
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So could anyone. Get over it. Thats life.
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