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Sometimes I wonder if it would matter to anyone if I were no longer here.

Sometimes I wonder if it would matter to anyone if I were no longer here.

 
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Every life is valuable and every person has a purpose. I don't even know you but it would matter to me if you were not here.
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It would matter to me...
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Need not wonder, of course you matter but it starts with you not with other people. I know it sounds like a bunch of bs, but you matter because you're here, because when looking outside the window instead of saying wow it's awfully cloudy out, you could say well the sunday will come out after the rain. Look at the person reflecting in the mirror, I bet there's so much going on for you, grasp it.
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If you love yourself, others' opinions don't matter
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You know that someone would care, otherwise you wouldn't be worried about it, or their feelings. But do you really want to go?
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Where there is LIfe there is always hope....in a minute your life could be transformed....try and concentrate on OTHER people and not yourself and you will see your life has more meaning !!!
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I think the same thing sometimes....but there is always someone who cares about you, whether you realize it or not. Cheer up :)
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Everything is not as it seems, it would matter to your family.
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I don't know your family situation so I honestly can't say you'd be missed or not. HOWEVER, what if there is someone down the road who needed to meet you? Needed to know you in order to complete their journey in life? What happens if you aren't there?
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someone out there cares and God does not forgive suicide
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i understand. but learn to love life, even if it means your having to find new friends, or a proxy family. i hope you find comfort in your misery (not being mean).
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all life matters.you would be missed by more than you think. it matters to me and i dont even know you.
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I felt pretty much this way at 15. I had a loaded gun, cocked and ready for business, with the safety off and aimed squarely on my head. I don't know if it was God, Jesus, or an Angel that spoke to me, yet I'm thankful I listened that dreadful morning and put the gun down. Also, I didn't follow through with the strong temptation of maiming or murdering some of the punks who made my teen life a living hell. Consider the incredible people in this life that you'll never meet or have the opportunity to influence as I have. I've learned life here isn't meant to be fair - it's truly a TEST and the Real Deal. Face it with courage as God meant for you to!
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Not for long. You matter more being alive and showing you care about other people.
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yes it would matter
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Yeah, everyone thinks this at one point or another. You find out that you do matter to more people than you think, whether you know it or not right now. If you worry about this too much, then you need to get out there and make yourself matter to someone, if you know what I mean. Every passing moment holds the chance to turn it all around, if you act on it.
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Who said that? ;)
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You'd really be suprised. I had friends that felt the exact same thing.
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It matters. You matter.
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It would absolutely matter
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Maybe not a stadium full, but I'd bet way more than you think.
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I wonder the same thing, and none of these comments from people who don't know me or anything about me can't possibly mean anything to me
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No man is an island, entire to himself...blah blah blah blah. never send to know for whom the bell tolls...babble babble babble. Get off of your ass and make some real friends, help with volunteer work, read to kids at school, bathe and groom yourself regularly, don't smoke, get plenty of exercise , eat a healthy diet, brush your teeth three times a day, laugh often, do you job well. See what happens when you are responsible for you.
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stay out of martinsville
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I feel the same way sometimes.... i have "friends" that talk to me when it's convenient. When I tell people to call me when there's something going on I never get called. I even express how pissed off I get that noone ever calls me and noone cares. I don't think it's because someone doesn't like me I just think i'm invisible sometimes... I know exactly where you're coming from...
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I feel just like that no one gives a shit
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There are always people left behind asking why...
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everyone asks themselves that question live your life better
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hey try this - skip a few months payments and see - someone will miss you.
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well, if by "we" you mean mankind, then the answer is NO. I all humans die, no one would be alive to care about it.
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When a butterfly dies in china it is felt across the world. Of course you matter.
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it matters to many ! my best friend over dosed on pills nevr new how many people he hurt
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me too
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Watch sitcoms, listen only to upbeat happy music, and keep your thoughts in check. Your not alone, we all have dark nights of the soul.
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I don't want to die but I often wonder how long it will be before anyone realizes?
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My ex husband whom I still loved very much took his life 5 weeks ago today and I am sure he must have been feeling the way you are right now, but he was so wron so many people are devistated and had so much love for him that he could not see through his depression. Please get some help and tell a loved one what you are feeling, if only he would have told me and not kept htis a seceret we would still have him with us, Now he will never know just how much I loved him.
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There is a way out. You are "dead" in Spirit already otherwise you would not consider taking your own mortal life. Dying in sin can bring an eternity of horror. Think it is bad now? It is not too late, but it may be soon. Take it from someone who was once where you were. Do not let the things of this world cause you any more despair. Contact me at http://inhis.name. Email me on the email link "help". You have died once in Spirit, do not die a second time. Your Spirit can be reborn. There is only one way for this miracle to happen. Jesus is the only way. According to you, there is nothing to lose, but your mortal life and eternity. Everyone gets eternal life, where do you want to spend it? Contact me please! I am offering you a parachute out of darkness and misery. But you have to make the choice. I pray to the Father to attract you tho his son, Jesus Christ, that whoever shall believe in Him, shall not perish, but have eternal life.
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Same here when I die no one will come to see me my lost will be their gain 50 grand gain
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Wouldn't make a lick of difference to me - haven't got a f***ing clue to who you are cheese-ball!
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If you consider it, that's true for many and possibly most of us. But that's not the purpose of our existence on earth.
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