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I'm 43 and having regular sex with a 20 year old college girl.  She's the barista in the coffee shop down the street.  And I don't feel bad about it. At all.

I'm 43 and having regular sex with a 20 year old college girl. She's the barista in the coffee shop down the street. And I don't feel bad about it. At all.

 
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You're both consenting adults, what's the big deal?
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hope she doesn't have a tattoo as lame as that one.
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who cares if she did??
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Have you met her family yet? But really: It's good you feel so pleased with yourself and have enough modesty to feel it is a secret you can only share here--I guess...
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No problem with it unless one of you is cheating. Then you (or she) is pure scum. But other than that, blow her back out like a cheap pair of speakers.
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You are going to need not feel bad about it because you are going to get a real good lesson in attitudes. When I was 45 I was with a 20 yr old from another country here on a work permit and it was great (really great) yeah if the age difference had not been so big we would have married. But people in general were scandalized. Women, especially older ones HATED it. The men were all "Hey, way to go, stud" yeah, OK whatever. Americans thought I was a dirty old man using a dumb slut who didn't know any better and people from her country thought I was a poor, sad, exploited middle aged man and she was a gold digging whore. Good luck with that, people are going to keep their distance.
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OP < To 2 above - you're right, but it's not a public thing so no one stares. I'm definitely keeping it at this level only. She goes to college in another state in August anyway...lol And yes she has a tatt, but it's much more tasteful than the pic. No one's cheating, and there's no "relationship", we're just having fun. And yes, she exhausts me.
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"Barista"? Is that a fancy way to say Bimbo?
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lol post above. And to the op...who f***ing cares, get over yourself.
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lol @ above - I'm sure you wouldn't have a chance with any girl, period.
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Good job! Wish I were you. She's getting a great learning experience and you're getting a great lay. Love it!
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4^ I wouldn't worry too much about having anything to do with a "chick with the stamp." With your attitude you'll be lucky to get close enough to a decent girl to get slapped, let alone laid. What a dick!
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She's legal. How much are you paying her? She should be ashamed of herself not you.
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You dont feel bad about it now but if her dad finds out you may not feel anything, ever again cuz you may be dead! I know if it was my daughter you would at least be in ICU
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Good for you man....Bang the hell out of her!!!!
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K... um... "the stamp" idea is a total joke. Its a place on the body to get a tattoo. Shut the f*** up already. How would you guys like it if we branded you for something as stupid as a tattoo? Let me think. You guys would be crying "Oh thats not fair!!! Sniff." I have a tattoo there and I do NOT sleep around. Simple f***ing minded men. (plus you might think its oh so naughty but youd do a chick with "the stamp" in a heartbeat, if she let you, cuz youre a judgmental dick and are probably still a virgin as well) Losers.
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Why would you feel bad about it unless you're a really lame f***?
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OP And to the question about how much I pay her - ummm, nothing, unless you consider $4.50 for a latte paying for sex.
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^^^ okay thats not the issue Im pissed about. Generalizing us all as whores is. I understand its unoriginal. Mine sort of is.... Lots of people get what they personally like. Not neccesarily to copy people. And stars will always be the shit. Just so you know : D
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^ Actually, that's a fallacy. Men never actually "peak", and are usually as potent at 50 as they are at 18.
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The woman saying that tatts don't make you a whore is correct. It's just artistic decoration, and like all art, some is better than others.
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This is the perfect situation - she gets experience, and he gets tightness...lol
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OP < Sheesh, I didn't know this would be about her tatt! LOL - if you guys could see it, I think you'd like it.
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If this is true, then go with it as long as it's consensual.
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If you're not married, you have no reason to feel bad at all. If you are, remember that karma's a b****.
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Barista"? hmmm is that like a chick who works the fryer at burger king???????i bet she is a beast
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Im 18 and Im FWB's with a 37 year old man..Were both consentiong adults, and we have a helluva lotta fun...I dont see anything wrong with it...
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I'm 53 and f***ing a 29 yo regularily. She's a bit wild, but a real fun f***. I guess she likes my experience and talents. There's not much better than a tight young pussy. I wish I could screw a 20 yo. That is so tight and nice.
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Feel bad? Who convinced you that you are supposed to feel bad about that? What reason did they have for trying to brainwash you like that?
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I'm 39 and the girl i'm with is 19 ...she the best thing to ever happen to me.
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Im 42 year old guy and im secretly with a 20 year old college guy - only we know. And it's the BEST.
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Rock on, dude.
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I went to grad school when I was in my forties, and the women in their twenties were ALL OVER the older guys - this is the truth.
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I dated a high school senior when I left the navy at 26. She was 17, close to 18,very bright, and an excellent student. We had a great deal in common. The boys her age, and college guys just wanted sex. I met her mom after a few dates, and she wasn't thrilled, but she appreciated that we were honest with her. She did her freshman year in college at home, then she won a scholarship to a school out west. I had to transfer also, for my work, so we said goodbye. It was a very nice relationship for us; not exploitive at all. (And yes, we had sex almost right away, but we had a lot in common, so it was far more than just sex.) I learned from this that you never know with whom you can be happy!
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