Sometimes discretion is the better part of valor. You might have contact with this beautiful child if you knew how to control yourself and your feelings toward mama. What she is, is non of your business. Stop youir meaness and love you grandchild, the rest means nothing.
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If this is really your mentality, it is probably best that you're NOT in the child's life. You need to get your head out of your backside and learn to accept your son and the woman HE CHOSE to be the mother of his child. I'm so sorry you have such a sour heart.
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Yes, my son chose her. He did so at the COST of his beautiful 9 year old child that we all know and love! Since being with this woman who has given him VD, tried to run him over with his own truck, sent him to jail on made up charges, and so much more...he has NEGLECTED his 9 year old. No one is sure this child is his since the mother has sex indiscriminately and has tried to kill HIM several times. There is so much more to the story than what that little space allowed. Our WHOLE FAMILY has suffered badly because of this crazy woman and the poor judgment my son has engaged in. I ACHE to hold this baby but if we don't buy her other children gifts and allow them to interfere, she will not allow it. It's all or none and since she has emailed several of us, claiming that the baby is NOT his, it's difficult. Her other children are clean and fed but neglected in every other way. There is no discipline in the household and therefor no peace...it is extremely difficult for anyone to see the baby since she won't let my son take her to see US.
Thank you for your comments.
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^ I'm the first commmenter: if what you say here is true, there are laws that you can use to take these children from her. You as a human being are obligated to do so. No one has the right to abuse children. Do the right thing, get a lawyer and take these children from her, without emotion, without anger but with love and the law: coldly and with determination. Prove her unfitness and the bad environment she perpetrates on these innocents and stop whining or shut up. As for your son, sounds like he never got the spanking he needed or he was abused form early on, in either case, it's too late now so forget him too, only the children matter now. If you don't save these children you are as guilty as your son and the woman you complain about. "For evil to triumph, it is only necessary that good men do nothing."
Edmund Burke
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I love this site. People are so quick to judge. "Love your grandchild and don't be so critical of the woman." Really? REALLY? Come on people, that's her son. He literally was born of her flesh. You can love a grandchild just as much, but to just ignore the fact that your own child is with a two-bit whore is a bit extreme don't you think? No wonder so many of you post on here as miserable f***s.
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To the 1st responder. I am doing what I can to rectify the situation for HER children. She is a sociopath, much like Drew Peterson and Casey Anthony. You have NO idea what we are dealing with! Thanks for the advice. And my son has NEVER been abused until he met HER. Never spanked either. I had no idea this was an advice/judgment site.
To the 2nd poster who defended me, THANK YOU! I have TWO grandchildren. ONE is suffering greatly at the loss of her DAD who was her HERO for all those years. THAT WOMAN has called her a c*nt, a b*tch and who knows what else right to my son's face! I have reported her to The Center for Missing and EXPLOITED Children for putting my granddaughter's address on the internet while calling her those horrible names! I am gravely disappointed in my son for not stepping up to the plate for his child, although I DO understand the situation he's in now. She has convinced him (somehow) that SHE is the ONLY person who cares about him. She has put the most humiliating things on the internet about him, she has alienated his WHOLE family from him! He is not the FIRST man she has done this to and the consequences for the other ones were unbelievable! He has never been abused but now he is in an abusive situation. I can't convince him of that because it so seldom happens to MEN. He has been torn down by her, put in jail, lost TWO jobs and ALL his friends and family BECAUSE of HER. We can't talk to her at all and I, who live thousands of miles away have had to call the police on HER 3 times for harassing me over the phone sometimes 20 calls in a row! I recently discovered that they did not document my calls. I just pray there is a record of them in their internal logs. Otherwise, I will have to contact my cell phone company for proof when the time is right.
Again...thank you for your support!!
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Granny, check out the forums on AARP to see what other grandparents have done to rememdy similar situations. There are support groups for abused men that your son can meet with to discover how to get away from the abuse.
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2^ What you are doing is obviously not good enough. Get help.
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Oh please. If he stays with her then just stay out of it. You may be Mommy Dearest and all, but you cant get into someones marital affairs. No matter how thin you slice it there is always two sides. Why dont you try to figure out what your son is doing to her, because if hes still with her and she is everything you say she is..he obviously has mental problems...that he must have gotten from you.
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I feel bad for your situation but I am confused by something...in your post you say that the child has your eyes yet twice, if not more you have stated that no one thinks the baby is your sons. Just wondering. Also, if the baby isn't his, just focus on the 9 year old. Be present for the grandchild that you can be with.
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i suggest if you dont want comments to keep it in your own blog, or personal diary, and not put out where everyone can read how pathetic you are.
love,
jerko
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similar thing happened with my ex-wife. First thing she did was set out to separate me from my friends and especially family. What are some women sooo controlling??
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To the person who is confused...join the club. She SAYS it's his...then she SAYS it's not. He pays child support and takes care of the baby as well as HER other kids. We were all ready and wiling to just accept it until she started doing some really horrible things to ALL of us including the one that is DEFINITELY his. Shes insanely jealous of her...even went as far as getting her very long hair cut in the same style as hers because everyone made such a big deal out of how cute it was. I can see that the baby has my eyes and have been told by more than one person that she looks like me. I love her and would like to be able to spend time with her, but the mother has just made that impossible for ALL of us. Apparently she has done the very same thing to the other men who fathered her other kids. One that I know of has ended up in a mental institution because of his relationship with her. Another one is in jail for bank robbery and murder, the third one ran off with the marriage counselor. Sounds like a bad movie, ey? Imagine living it! I'm sure I'll catch some heat for all this...but hey, it's not MY life...it was just my "Untold Secret"...which was that I love her, even though I will never know her.
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To the first responder- I noticed you didn't apologize for being such a judgmental ass.
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I just went back and read that first repsonder's comment. HE DID NOT CHOOSE HER to be the mother of his child. They SCREWED. What he CHOSE to do was not put a helmet on his soldier". He was screwing a whore he met over the fence at a party. DUMB on his part and his choice was more about consequences and poor impulse control. He told me he would never have CHOSEN to have a baby with that VIPER, but now...because of his POOR CHOICE, he's stuck (IF that baby really is his).
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Aren't you glad you posted here? LOL
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^3 I won't either, this poster is as twisted as you are, willing to post annonymous BS on here but obvioulsy doing little to mitigate the circumstances she claims are true. What she describes is easily handled through the law yet somehow it continues. Makes me wonder. Stop whining and do something. Only you can prevent more of the same.
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You don't know what I HAVE done angry person! Stop judging and move on.
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By the way...what I HAVE done...well, that's a whole 'nother SECRET. Stay posted
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^Bull Shit!!
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Can we say DNA Test?
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Well this sounds like one hot mess and I'm glad it's not happening to me.
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Forgive her. Pray for her, pray for yourself. If you can forgive her, then you know what it is like to be "Christlike." Replace your anger and hate with love and joy. It is only by the grace of Jesus through faith that you can be saved, and then spread the gospel with love to your daughter in law. If you need assistance with the Gospel, email me through http://inhis.name. Forgiveness
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"Come to me, all you who are weary and burndened, and I will give you rest. Take my youke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. For my yoke is easy and my burden is light." Matthew 11: 28 - 30
There is an answer. His name is Jesus. By the time He had hung on that cross at Calvary, he was beaten with a leather whip with metal pieces tied on the ends to rip flesh.
A crown of thorns was placed on His head then pushed down tight so that the thorns pentetrated into the skin.
He carried His cross as He was beaten. After He was lifted on the cross, the guards cast lots for His garments.
Oh, by the way, He did this for you. He gave up His human life so that you may be given a chance to conquer sin.
His body was taken from the cross and placed in a nearby tomb. On the third day He rose from the dead and revealed Himself to over 500 people. On the 40th day, He ascended into Heaven to be with the Father.
His death on the cross provides you the opportunity of life. For if you do not know Jesus Christ, you are dead in Spirit. To repent of your sins and turn to a relationship with Jesus is to be born again.
Let me tell you more about the good news! No longer do you have to live in darkness. Go to http://inhis.name and there is a prayer to help guide you to Jesus. There also is a way to contact me so that I can explain more of the Great news of salvation.
If you have read this far, read this last questions. How old are you? In 100 years how old will you be? Where will you be?
humble servant of Christ,
zack
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To the person who wrote "^Bullshit"...haha! There are ways...and where there's MY WILL, there's always A WAY...trust me! There are things in action that I will not post here. Not yet...and not as me, that's for sure!
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wow. too many deep comments. can you say MOMMA'S BOY HAD ENOUGH
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notice the SON is NOT responsible for ANY of his actions and its some one else, who controls it all!!! sounds to me like YOUR son is a WHORE as well, since he already had a child, I will assume he was in a relationship. He sounds like a HUGE loser!! while momma makes excuses and blames the babymomma for EVERYTHING... ~just say'n~ back woods hillbilly breeding~
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If you called me a whore, I wouldn't let you see my son either.
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1 up NO doubt... And can YOU blame a mother who says, YOU must treat ALL my children the same, you cant just be nice to the one YOUR son fathered~ Cant blame a woman for THAT in the least. But, I wouldn't know.. my kid/s ONLY have ONE father,and TWO sets of grandparents.... Yes I KNOW how old fashion of US. lol
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Maybe you don't get to see your grandchild because you call his mother a whore
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