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im so scared and been crying so much. how do i tell my family that i have un-cureable cancer. im only 23

im so scared and been crying so much. how do i tell my family that i have un-cureable cancer. im only 23

 
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you just tell them!
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get a support group together. someone that you can truely trust someone that will give you the strength to help you tell. As much as it will hurt it will feel better to let them know rather then to keep it in.
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My sister, at 34, found that she had breast cancer and came to me to tell me. She told her husband and the kids. We all did everything possible to make her last days on earth as pleasant as possible. Tell your family. You will be amazed at how supportive they will be. My sister passed on St. Patricks day in 2008. Ifeel for you and I will miss, although I don't know you. Make the most of your time. Spend it with family and friends and recall the good memories that you share.
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omg, My heart goes out to you. Just pray and keep your head up. You can never tell. Things may change. I"ll say a prayer for you as well.
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My prayers for you...be strong.
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I pray to the Christ God Jesus for you. Please seek him for help.
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I always wondered what I would do in that situation. Sometimes I thought maybe I would write a note. Sometimes I thought I would never tell. My cousin did the second she never told and to this day my aunt wonders why she never told her because they were so close. It is so hard to know what to tell you to do. I wish this did not happen to people it is not fair. I feel for you and if I could give you a hug I would do just that. Take care and something you could do is make sure your sending off is how you want it to be. I have been sick for a long time with other things and have made it known that if I go I want specific things. Sometimes that is the hardest part for family. Good Luck sweetie.
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You don't, Live until you die! I am
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I'm praying for you. You have to tell them. You need them now more that ever. They need to know this.
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My biggest fear. You have some tough decisions to make. Big e-hug for you.
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I feel for you and hope you the best but don't try and deal with something like this alone. Having family there to help will only aide you in a good recovery.
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Sit them down. Be open. They will support you. I went to a job once and didn't do well. They sent me home. I was so scared of what my mom would think because she was so happy for me getting the job. I drove around for hours trying to figure out how to tell her. I walked in and she knew. She hugged me and onward and upward. The next week I started another job. I have been there now for 3 years. I love my job.
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OMG. Bless your heart. Let them know ASAP so they can gain perspective and act accordingly. I know you don't want to but the sooner the better... telling them should be the least of your worries.
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You Have to tell them..NOW. If you dont, think about how upset they will be because they did not know and because they were not able to spend all of the time that they thought that they would have forever.If it were me.. I would tell my family. You need support through this too, so tell them.
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tell them! how can you have cancer at such a young age? but im so sorry but dont give up hope, everyone dies its just a matter of when and how. Just live your life to the fullest and thank god for everything you have and experienced. Be brave, Stay positive and strong and god bless
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Live life to the fullest now as God intended. As of now you r more beautiful than anyone around in God's eyes and your family. You have a chance to say I LOVE YOU
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You live life, adn you be thankful for the time that you were given, and you tell your family, so they have a change to say good-bye, and you tell them to rejoice in your life, not pity your illness. Be strong, and know that your life has made a difference to others.
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Just put everything in God s hands ...and talk with your family...god can take what ever u have ...just believe
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Have u looked into wheat grass?
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