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I want to kill myself so bad because I feel like I have ruined my daughters life but I am scared to because I am scared she will miss me and I will ruin it more

I want to kill myself so bad because I feel like I have ruined my daughters life but I am scared to because I am scared she will miss me and I will ruin it more

 
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Don't do it. Taking your life will only ruin hers. She will miss you more than words can say. Just think about it, and talk to others, sometimes thats the only way to figure things out.
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What can you do now, besides suicide, to mitigate whatever it is you did to "ruin" her life? Find a way to reverse the problem. do whatever it takes, you may find it's not as bad as you think and things may work out for the best... everything happens for a reason.
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She will miss you and your suicide will be very painful for you so... instead of killing yourself, make amends for what you did to her, listen to her talk about that pain and own it and apologize. Then heal yourself and be a better parent for her until the day you die. This is what I wish my parents had done for me. One parent commit suicide, the other almost ruined my life with abuse. I love and forgive them both but I still long to know that they cared and were sorry for what they did.
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I feel the same way
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You are here and you are smart enough to know that you did something wrong. Do your best to make it right. Suicide would only make it worse for her and would only be a selfish way to rid guilt. Please, just love your daughter and be the best Dad you can. THAT is what she needs and what you both deserve. xox
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Please seek help, I had attempted suicide. It really made my daughter feel insecure about me and herself. We are healing by talking and knowing I am going nowhere.
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Don't. Think about who you leave behind.
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Forget it pal, you've got a job to finnish.
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dont do it suicide is a permenant problem to a short term problem with a available solution here call they are here to help 800-273-8255
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If you commit suicide then the chances that she will will skyrocket.
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