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I found out my best friend's dad is gay and has a guy on the side - I dont know how to tell him. He would kill him and it would kill his mom.

I found out my best friend's dad is gay and has a guy on the side - I dont know how to tell him. He would kill him and it would kill his mom.

 
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Do not ruin the friend"ship" with your friend, just let it go - and support your friend - he does not need to hear it from anyone but his dad.
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I agree. When the you-know-what hits the fan, be supportive to your friend. That bombshell, however, should not come from you.
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Don't tell him, because it's none of your business. Stay out of it and quit thinking that everything is about YOU and YOUR response.
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Definately do not tell your friend. Because first off he won't believe you and secondly it will ruin your friendship.
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This is none of your business, STFU!
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This is a hard one.... I am disgusted by the thought of the wife not knowing. She NEEDS to know, but I don't think you are the one to do it. Do not tell your friend. This situation has to be dealt with by those in the marriage first without their child involved. Perhaps you could hatch a plan to leave an anonymous note for the Mom? I agree it's horrible. It's the father's problem and sickness though, don't let it affect his son. His mom will figure out the best and least harmful way to tell him at some point, but right now it's important for the wife to know, and her alone.
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sounds like you are jealous and want him for your self. i want to ride the pony daddy.
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My father is gay and cheated on mom with a man but that doesnt mean I will ever stop loving him
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you didnt say how you found out. unless you caught him in the act you dont really know for sure
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There is nothing wrong with a little side action. Maybe she already knows. Maybe she gets off on it.
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Are you sure he is gay? Maybe he will just hold a cock in his mouth until the swelling goes down. There is a difference, you know.
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Don't tell anybody anything - let it work out by itself.
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mind your own business. U cant understand what it is like til you have been in their shoes
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