I know it hard to hear don't worry about it but don't. After having my baby I have a pouch and didn't like taking off my shirt while having sex. My husband could have cared less.I was so worried I wasn't enjoying myself fully. Enjoy yourself your beautifull.
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Thanks, that makes a difference to know I am not alone with those thoughts and feelings. And this is the after effects of having my baby. I think the scar that is left behind makes me feel the worst.
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i have struggled with weight all my life, and now that i have lost quite a bit i have a horrible looking stomach that i dream of having removed. my husband has never really seen me completely naked....only bits and pieces :(
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well do something about you fat pig! look at a few post down from here you will see what you will become@! fat whores
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Yeah ok just accept it! why not? its ok that you have turned into a slob! then when you catch hubby looking at other women or banging someone else you will cry..Why me!@ you fat women make me sick!!
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^ you are an ignorant prick. I hope that you end up alone as I would feel sorry for anyone that ends up with someone like you. Just because a woman gains a few lbs doesn't change who she is. We go through a change after having a child and don't all end up being some tiny stick figure with no shape after that. You should not be allowed to have children I hope you end with a disease that causes you to become morbidly obese!
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^^And you are a mad-cuz-ur a pig Bytch! go phuck yourself fat kunt! excuses excuses Gwen stanfani had two kids! PIGS!! oink oink just die!
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Wow that's kind of rough! did someone Fat sit on you? wow all that hate! let those women get fat its less water they have to put in the tub at bath time!
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i've said it before and i'll say it again. big girls need luv too.
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OK you guys are just being jerks. I wrote this post because I am not comfortable with the scars that I have left after the birth of my child. It never had to do with being overweight. I am not comfortable being naked because I have 2 scars the bottom of my belly. I don't like the way they look and I hope that if my hubby is drunk that he will not notice they are there. I have a lot of family members that are overweight and I am guessing by the way you all are talking you must come from a background of either tiny people or you are all just really hateful.
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getting fat or old our bodies degrade with time its part of life my wife is 55 just as beautiful as the day we met her spirit is still young...
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Don't worry they are just being hateful, but being drunk doesn't impair his sight I think it just doesn't bother him.
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My wife has those scars too. They fade with time. It's a very small thing to worry so much about. If you are in love they don't matter and sex with love renders all imperfections nil. Enjoy him and let him enjoy you. There is nothing like great sex with someone you truly love. And forget all the haters above the will never know true happiness or love they are too occupied with hate and anger and ridicule. They wouldn't know love if it came with an orgasm machine attached..
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My husband had a heart transplant, and has several scars from the staples where they cracked his chest open. Trust me .... Scars are better on a live person, than a dead one!
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Who said anything about being fat. We all are relating to changes after doing something no man wiil every be able to do Making, carring
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ok Im fat and I love my body every mark scar or nasty roll its mine and I love it.. My husband is happy and alot of men try picking me up too so please get over your issue and love your husband phuck these people talking about you because u have to love u and thats when u can heal
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You don't love your body!@ you accept it because you are too lazy to do anything about it! your husband probably cant get anyone else@ why else would he stay with your fat disgusting ass?
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All of you haters had better look in the mirror-I guarantee I can find something (or, many things)about you that are not attractive-to the OP, it is about love-I wouldn't trad my Wife for anything, even if she gained 100#-if your Husband loves you it does not matter-
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Why are people soo mean? I grew up overweight. I lost over 100 lbs 14 years ago. I still see that fat girl in my mind, that is still who I am. I was happier fat. I thought all the mean people would be nice once I lost the weight. What gives you the right to ask me why I'm fat in public? Now you all just give me dirty looks because I smoke. I wish all of us that offend you would just die too. I don't know how to be here.
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You should be mad to crawl on all fours like Hogs!
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^ When you realize you can't spell and you need smart people to run the world around you maybe you'll be nicer.
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My wife is overweight. The only reason it bothers me is because of her lack of drive, security, and self image.If she found herself attractive like I do, we would have a much healthier sex life. But we do not because she does not feel sexy... For 6 years now I have dealt with this.. I just wish she would either get over it, or work to lose the weight so that she would feel better about herself.I hope this helps?
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^^ tell your wife the weight never mattered then
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I do all of the time. I try to make here feel beautiful.. but you cant make people feel something.
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See a therapist,- you have underlying issues that once addressed will help you address the weight issue.
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