he deserves that chance if he ever does want to take it, just because he hates you doesnt mean he'll be a jerk to her. and she deserves to know who and what kind of man her father really is. people change when they want to not when you want them to
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It's not your call, it's your kids.
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You should be angry. But people change you should never say anything mean about the father to the child. If he sucks she will find out on her own.
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OP here, I could totally see how you all would think that I'm the "crazy one", mentally unstable. And you right I WAS angry, not so much now.
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I would rather use that energy and focus it on my child. But as to why I do this. Simple. When I first spoke to him after finding out I told that I don't expect anything more than you are willing to give. But unfortunately he made it very clear in all 174 emails he sent...If I choose to terminate the pregnancy then he would pay for that.
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I chose to keep her and in turn decided that he didn't want no responsibilty. And he didn't leav me I left him shortly after finding out that he a member of The Church Of Satan. Not my ideal enviroment to raise my child in. So at 6 weeks before birth he quit his job, at 4 weeks he moved to OR.
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So then at exactly 2 weeks before giving birthday is flavor of the moment called me up and called me a few choice words and that I deserved to have my fetus ripped out and killed (not this words, i censored it for here). I changed my number that day. 2 weeks later I had her by myself. My fear is after all these years of raising her by myself, no child suport, no help from gvmnt, paying for childcare. I would sacrifice everything for my child but unforutately we are all not like that. Case in point her father.
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And as for the person that states its not my choice its my child's. You fail to recognize that my child is a minor. I have legal guardianship, so it is my choice of what I want to say and when its appropriate. At the same time this all a very unrealistic to be able to answer, just the same with most of you, you don't know what you would do in my shoes till get there. Well, I myself have not a clue on what I will say, do, react etc. So...go on amongst yourself and go back to what you were doing! Good Evening:)
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I hate dead-beat moms. And it sucks that sometimes the government lets them get away with it at times.
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I totally understand this. My son's father left when I was seven months pregnant with him and has never even seen him. He is almost 10 now. My biggest fear is that his dad will one day "decide" to come find us and want to be part of my son's life. We would all be traumatized if that ever happened.
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