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i know he cheats. i know he is never going to stop.  i am terrified that he still loves his ex-wife... more than he will ever love me

i know he cheats. i know he is never going to stop. i am terrified that he still loves his ex-wife... more than he will ever love me

 
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Walk away. You are torturing yourself. That's not healthy.
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Two issues jump out here: If you know for sure he is cheating, and you stay, you honestly deserve this pain. It is up to YOU, and no one else, to create boundaries and start seriously kicking ass when they are crossed. Secondly, if he can never love you enough, if you are always certain his love for you will never be as great as these other loves, then that may be why he is cheating. Men don't like being attached to someone who cannot appreciate the love they do give....could be after awhile, he's just given up. Sister, you've got to make YOURSELF happy. That's your No. 1 job in this life!
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I made my stepfather cookies with rabbit turds in them and he loved them! There are many things you can do to make yourself feel better! Either hire a private detective, or stalk him yourself. Keep notes on his comings and goings including dates and times. If he's lying you will know for sure because liars can't keep thier stories straight. You can even use a tracking device that you secretly install in his car and track him on the internet. We can stop society from getting too crazy. We need people to have morals and values. Maybe if we catch enough of these losers people will stop cheating those they are supposed to love and protect.
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just leave hun, he not worth any of this pain in the long run you'll be glad you did, but for now its going to be real hard to leave, but the sooner the better
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Poster with the "stepfather cookies" thing. What the f*** is wrong with you? Do you really think that feeding someone cookies with rabbit turds in them is going to stop people from cheating? You are a f***ing retard. If she knows he is cheating and stays then she is condoning the behavior by staying. Putting shit in his cookies is not going to stop him.(you're a f***ing retard) Please just try to set your mind to walking away from the situation. It seems like a no win place for you.
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You can easily find a man who will be faithful. Why would you stay with a man who is cheating?start paying attention to men in your life, find someone else, leave this other man.Is this what you truly want? or do you want to change him... It's noble an all, but he will not change. He is having casual sex with people and he will continue to do so.
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Man, that is sad. I feel for you. Are you hot?
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You are in love with the idea of being in love. Be by yourself for a while learn to have some self respect, dignity and confidence. Bring those sexy qualities to your next relationship and give yourself the chance for real love.
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