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I cannot reach an orgasm unless I have no control over the sex.

I cannot reach an orgasm unless I have no control over the sex.

 
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I love having control.
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While it's normal to entertain fantasies of being dominated, I am concerned that you will live your whole life never feeling that YOU control the love and passion your heart feels.
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Ditto with the one above,But it is fun !
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I would love to meet a woman like you!
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i feel the same way i NEED to be control in bed
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My girlfriend is the same way. But I can't takwe control without feeling like a rapist a** ****. It's confusing!!!
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You need to have your ass ripped up a bit.
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No orgasm unless you have no control over sex: I wonder if some people like this weren't maybe molested as children.-S
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You need to get counseling. You are clearly dealing with misplaced father issues. This can be worked out, but you need to see a professional.
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~_~ COME HERE! I said COOOOME HERE RIGHT NOW!!!
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I understand. I offer that there is another version of authentic sexuality out there and it will take self exploration to find it. Be brave. Keep trying. Orgasm is not a goal but a result of pleasure. Go for pleasure.
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I'm the same. I have to be dominated. I love it!
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it's called being submissive
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i'm here let's get it on
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I really believe that this is because you were brainwashed into feeling that sex is dirty, wrong, nasty, shameful, sinful, etc. (Ain't religion just wonderful?) Most Americans have that same screwed up belief. In your case, you cannot enjoy it unless someone else takes the entire responsibility for it. Thank God, I married a woman who is NOT an American.
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