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Im falling in love with a good friend. He is everything i could ever want personality and everything else. Im 20 yo male he's 19. i dont think i can tell him

Im falling in love with a good friend. He is everything i could ever want personality and everything else. Im 20 yo male he's 19. i dont think i can tell him

 
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go for it dude. regrets are the worst.
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im the author of this post...im bi, and he is ... well ii dunno. im pretty sure he's either bi or gay. but he aint straight. but im too afraid to say anything. we're good friends and all
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It is always better to start off as friends, but if things don't work out you both will have to work at keeping the friendship. It will be hard but it can be done. Yes regrets are the worst. Good luck!!!!!!!!
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Aw, gay love. Good luck honey!
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My own experience ...both times I told someone that I had bi-curious feelings for them (they were both openly gay) ....they dumped me as a friend. Now, I am afraid to share my feelings w/ anyone.
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i am the author once again...and im stuck... i seriously wanna tell him BUT it can go either way... he's cool with it.. or just dumps me as a friend... so i think i will do NOTHING...
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very surprised at the comments on this one. This site always gets me. I thought this would be all haters.
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Doing nothing for the time being may be the wise choice. Certainly there are ways to let someone know that you care without coming right out and saying it. Just try to look for opportunities to show him your care without risking putting him on the spot to respond to a direct declaration of how you feel. Time will tell if there's something more that's possible between the two of you. Maybe just by talking about in a detached way like, something you saw in a movie or read in a book or that it's something a cousin of yours is going through just to feel him out about the whole issue of being gay. Hang in there Bro.
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to the comment above this...Thanks, it helps a lot... im the author of this post by the way. i appreciate it. this time has just been all frustration and uneasiness for me.
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What's wrong with this people? Yea, There's a guy hitting on my mentally handicapped cousin too. He touches him inappropriately. Freeking sick people!!!!!!!
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Is this the myuntoldGAYsecrets website now... damn!
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obviously, you wanted to read it... ^^ it isn't sick, it's REALITY! Homophobes scare me, and I'm straight! Good luck to the OP whether you decide to tell him now or to wait. Friendship is important in any relationship!!
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jUST sit down ands talk.ask him if he feels the same way.if not then u still have a friend.
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look if you dont do it then you will spen the remainder of your life wondering! and to me that is worse then not telling him how you feel.. if he is your friend he really wont care either way, if he dosent agree with it then he just dosent, and he will go on being cool with you anyway.. go for it!
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