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My wife thinks I am having an affair because we aren’t having sex. She won’t believe me that I am just not that interested in sex, with her or any other woman.

My wife thinks I am having an affair because we aren’t having sex. She won’t believe me that I am just not that interested in sex, with her or any other woman.

 
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I understand this. My husband thinks I am too but I never would. I love him, just don't particularly love sex.
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My ex-husband and I had the exact same problem. We eventually learned that his utter lack of sex drive was due to a combination of his taking anti-depressants and his abuse of pain pills. He chose the pills over the marriage. I'm now free, and in a much better and healthier place. He's dead of an overdose. I don't know what your situation is, but if it's anything similar to mine, I hope that you make a better choice than my husband did. You have a woman who loves and desires you. Give her a fighting chance.
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maybe ure gay?? wasnt there a post like this already but a woman insted of a guy. yall need to stop drinking all that coffee or something
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That's Bullshit
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See a doctor. There maybe a good reason for your lack of interest. Hormone theraphy may help. She and YOU deserve better.
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My husband is this way too. It drives me crazy!! I want sex and he doesn't. It gets aggravating and makes you start doubting things.
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She is going to f*** someone else. better get it hard quick.
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The OP indicates he is gay. If he is, he should be honest with his wife and let her move on. Anything less is unfair and selfish.
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how do you guess he is gay?? Maybe he is stressed? Maybe he is feeling guilty about something? Maybe his wife reminds himof his mother? Maybe he wants to tell his wife to suck his dick but she is to prissy she won't.
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"or any other woman." is the reason they think he's gay. It's a legitimate leap but still a leap and maybe just a simple miscommunication.
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yeah your right he is Gay. You can still be friends
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If he IS gay, he should walk away. She deserves to have love that is for real.
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"Why so homosexual?"
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You're making your wife feel ugly and unwanted
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quit thinking about your own needs and realize she has needs to. Either find a way to renew your interest (be it natural ways or otherwise) or find her another man to have sex with if you don't want to do it. If you don't, she will
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i cheat on my left hand and use the right one sometimes
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homosexuality is knocking your door ;)
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I don't spit on my dick when I jack off bcuz my hands might get jeluz
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then maybe u should have sex with ur father
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14^^ and to the original poster. There is a name for this disorder: SEXUAL ANOREXIA My husband too. In therapy now and he is making progress. I was going CRAZY trying to figure out why. Look it up. Some good books out there on it. And good info on the net. He has to want to get better AND realize there is a problem.
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I'll hit that.
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I like lesbian porn myself. It's better than real sex and a lot less of a hassle. More sanitary, too.
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GAY!!!
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It's all about Cock.........you want it...
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