My husband never has an orgasm while I give oral either. I also never had a problem before with any other guy. It took a while to convince my husband, but I stuck my finger in his butt while I give him oral, and he came in under 5 minutes. It was the fastest orgasm he has ever had. A man's g-spot (prostate) is in his anus.
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I would be willing to help you out,you can practice on me all that you want.
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It could be that he's secretly a little uptight about receiving oral. Or, maybe you're not aggressive enough for him. Some men need a little teeth and hand action. A woman's mouth is very soft, and some of us guys like it a little rough. Just a suggestion.
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First of all, he should be thankful for a wife who gives oral! Only about 10% do. So, ask him what would really yank him off. Maybe he wants his balls sucked more, etc.
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Some guys are a little shy about that. First off, talk to him like some other people have said. He is the best person to ask about what he needs to orgasm. Are you using your hand at the same time, below your mouth? That always helps. I know when I go down on my husband, I can get tired so I'll keep going with my hand while I take a quick break. Maybe have him use his hand if he needs that. He might just need to work into coming while you are down there. But for sure, ASK HIM what he likes.
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I really don't care for oral. I'd much rather be screwing. It hits me as a waste of time, and only for parking lot quickies. Just my male opinion. way over-rated
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Try hard pressure with you thumb ot knuckles in his groin just behind his scrotum as you suck him.
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LOL two posts up. Sometimes wish hubby was like that. He plays guitar and actually made up some "I need a blowjob" song. I just roll my eyes and humor him when I'm in the mood...luckily he's not a fanatic and is pretty happy with whatever "comes" his way haha
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Does he know that YOU want him to cum during oral? Maybe he would, but maybe he thinks you would not be pleased???
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Just a point of note: its possible he might have either the same or similar problem I have....nerve damage. Don't get me wrong. I seriously enjoy it, just no woman has ever been able to make me cum curing oral.
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I have talked to him, he said he has never cum during this with anyone. He says he needs the whole thing in my mouth and fast. I do it but it's really hard to do it for a long time. I honestly just think he's not into it. If thats even possible? I think he's like the guy above who said he'd rather be screwing. Maybe he does it for me because he knows how much I love to do it. But him not ever cumming or being into it Makes it feel incomplete and a waste of time. It's a really frustrating situation when someone isn't getting what they want sexually. All I want is him to Enjoy what I am doing. He says he does but I just think he is lieing. IDKThanks for all the advice.
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Sometimes I stop my GF from giving me oral because I DON'T want to finish that way. I wanna have sex too.Talk to him. Ask him.And a finger up the poopshoot works well too.
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Think about it this way, women say that they can enjoy sex tremendously even if they don't orgasm.Why can't it be the same way with your hubby and oral?
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^Good point...that's me :) Thanx for putting it in perspective
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maybe he wants a guy to give him oral
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Ride him from the top postion, know when he's ready to cum, get off and go down on him.
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good advise here, let me add mine. I'm 48 and had lots of head. Sometimes, even though it's awesome, I cant come because something is missing. I agree that the ass is a grest addition. The most important is this though. Does he know you WANT him to come becauase YOU want it? I have had gfs that would suck till the sun came up but I'd never come because I knew they didnt really want it, just wanted me happy. Big difference. good luck
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Some guys just don't cum with oral and sometimes guys are so conditioned NOT to cum during oral that when they are with a woman who does swallow its hard to finish that way.
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I have had more than a few girls give me oral, and only one was able to make me cum. I find actual sex more pleasing.
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Does your husband's name begin with a C? If so, think I know him from long ago.
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try shoving a finger up his ass.
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i think it may be a control issue...i love sex with my husband but when i am on top and in control my orgasms are WAY better. maybe he needs to find his own "rhythm" in order to have an orgasm!
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Failure to ejaculate during oral sex does not constitute grounds for adultery.
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Try a baseball bat up the ass!
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cocaine will numb your throat. Then you can go all the way down.
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Take a pair of vicegrips and pull out all your teeth, that will do the job, guaranteed!
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I tell ya what, why don't you try with me and I'll tell ya what you're doing wrong. j/k.
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Maybe, he's had better... and you AREN'T good enough. Keep on suckin' at suckin'.
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What difference does it make whether he cums that way or waits 'til you hop on? You are just a skank looking for an excuse to cheat!
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Giving good head is an art. These guys above who'd rather screw than get a great bj apparently haven't ever had a women curl their toes with a mind-bending bj orgasm. I'd take a good bj any day over a good screw. Practice makes perfect young lady.
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You're ready to give it to someone else? You f***ing slut. If he's not that worried about it, then you shouldn't be either. If it's that important for you to make someone c*m in your mouth, go walk the street.
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WTF ready to go suck off some random ass dude because you can't do it for your husband? sew the kneepads in your jeans b**** because it's obviously your duty
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Who knew that cum guzzling was a holy order and not a recreational activity...go getem girl!
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Umm wait, you just said he doesn't care if he finishes in your mouth... You might be "good at it" (you seem to have plenty of experience...) but why do you care if he doesn't?
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I agree that giving head is an art, my x could suck start a Harley. My wife now sucks at sucking.
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This picture is SO HOT!
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Oral just is not enough for me. I have to be nude with a woman and enter her to really feel I'm having sex.
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