I have never cheated, but been cheated on. Sometimes I wonder what happened...I don't want two women. Just one lady. Why is it so hard to find someone I can fall in love with and show her daily how greatful I am just to have her in my life? I am not the best/worst looking person in the world. Sometimes this makes me hate life. I see guys dating girls that they don't deserve to have. They treat the female bad. I can't do that. I love with everything I am. Why can't I find one woman that wants to be loved like that? And before you say I am looking in the wrong place... I have looked in every kind of place.
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In my opinion, in the past I was very similar to you. No lies, cheating, drinking, drugs etc. I've found that a large # of ladies take to the "James Dean effect". Get out on the edge a little, speed down the road, shoplift something stupid, they love this crap sometimes. its worked for me anyway.
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You're way too intense... you scare them! Lighten up, laugh, be stupid occasionally and never say too much.
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My husband is the same way. It took a year for him to grow on me, I wasn't attracted at first. He did it the right way, though. Stayed a friend, made himself easy to talk to, never tried to paw me when I wasn't into him, etc. About 10 months into it I fell in love with him. He got under my skin. Bad. I started thinking about him night and day, fantasizing, the whole bit. We've been together now for 9 years now. Lesson: Don't give up, be a good friend, don't have ulterior motives, and you never know what will happen!
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I feel your frustration as I have been in your shoes. It has taken me a long time to get over the anger and pain of being hurt by a woman. It is just as hard to not want to treat a woman bad in return but I was given a bit of advice: "Not all women are the same. Hang in there and be true to yourself...she will come along at some point." Hand in there...I am.
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I have never met a man who hasn't cheated. I KNOW thier are women who don't cheat as I am one of them. I am the most loyal honest person I know. I am married to someone who may or may not cheat again. I WANT to leave, but I am scared I will never find anyone who will love me and my children. So I stay and accept whatever little love he gives me. Put on a happy face and deal. Because I am afraid I will end up like you...wondering where are the good men are? Wondering if I will ever find someone? Being alone. I am terrified
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BE INDIFFERENT TO THE WOMAN YOU WANT. The mystery makes you more attractive. ALSO rent the movie "He is just not that into you" GREAT advice. SOME woman think that guys who are mean to mean...do that because deep down they really like them. (Starts on the playground) So they go after guys who are mean to them.
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I agree with you, bro!
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***Ask any woman that has taken time to know me (BTW I am the poster of the original string) and they will tell you kind hearted, loves to laugh, always there when you need him, honest, and loving. I have never cheated. When I enter a relationship I put my heart into it and I expect the same. So why would I want to cheat and break someone else's heart? I am not mean. Haven't got it in me. Just women see something in my eyes. I am a really peaceful person. Very slow to anger. Just think woman are looking for the pretty man and then when that jerk breaks their heart and gives them a disease they go Jenny from Forrest Gump. They come running.
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***Sanity lies within the penis, that's why!***
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From a womans point of view.. you need to be yourself. If they can't love you that way then they don't deserve you!
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Your not looking in the right places...men and women
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my husband was single for eight years before he met me.....he was my first boyfriend, took it very slow, let me get to know him and fall in love with him till it seeped into every inch of me....and we met when he called my office to ask a question :) if he would have never hinted that he was single i would have never known and he would be in some other lucky woman's arms. put yourself out there energetically and you will attract the right person...trust me! and fyi he was 37 when i met him and i was just turning 22 so he had to wait a LONG time before he found the right person..GOOD LUCK!
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^^^I'm still waiting and 54. The clock is running and running out fast.
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^^^oh yeah, and I'm a guy.
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women dont like nice guys.I'm a mean douche with no feelings and I approve it to you, I have girls chasing me all the time.I even give the wrong phone number sometimes.
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Correction to the above post.........It's American women who don't like nice guys. I know because I spent a couple decades wasting my time on them. Ukrainian women are gorgeous, and they don't have that f***ed up obsession with bad boys that American women have. Men constantly envy me for my beautiful Ukrainian wife.......I have been happily married for eight years now.
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Women are just evil!
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