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My ex boyfriend killed himself when I was pregnant. I misscarried a month later. Its been 6 years, and I still haven't told my parents. I dont think I will.

My ex boyfriend killed himself when I was pregnant. I misscarried a month later. Its been 6 years, and I still haven't told my parents. I dont think I will.

 
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That is alot of pain to carry secretly. I am so sorry. I am glad you found a place to open up and let it out. Even if you can never tell your parents, I hope that you can heal from this. I hope there are others who you can connect with and confide in and release some of that pain. Blessings to you.
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Why? Maybe they will be more support than you give them credit for.
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How sad
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That's really sad, especially if you really loved him.
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Only you know if you should tell your parents. Do find someone to talk to professional or otherwise. As for your ex boyfriend realize this wasnt you. This was faulty wiring in his brain that made him feel this was the only option. Accept him and yourself completely. It is the highest form of love we can experience here. Total and complete acceptance.
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^^Good reply. Interesting that after all the emotions and grief we eventually end up at acceptance.
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Don't tell your parents... I never told mine about an abortion I my GF got. I would be too ashamed. I figure they will find out soon enough in the "next life".
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i should have got an abortion your boyfriend would be alive
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