You are a dumbass and deserve what you get.
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Maybe someone will learn from your stupidity. 20 years!? What a fool you are!
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you get what you deserve. you are the typical a** ****. May you miss and ache for her every day of your life.
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I hate you too.
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So, you gave up 20 years, for some sad and desperate attempt to reclaim your youth. Was your self-indulgent little trip down memory lane worth it? I hope that she never takes you back, and that she finds some hot, young stud to console her. All night long.
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Unlike the rest of the posters, I actually understand why you'd want to do that. You never get over your first love. But the problem was that you actually acted upon it. You should have just kept the good memories and then you'd still be making new good memories with your family...
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1 up. "You never get over your first love." is one of those cliche statements that I've always hated. You can. And, those of us who are not living in some maudlin and delusional fantasy world, DO get over it and move on. Let go of yesterday and get over yourself. Don't accept some Hallmark sentiment as gospel.
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I'm gonna guess (and think about it carefully OP) that you've never tried to get that life back. I'm sure you'd say to me that you have, but everyone hates you. The problem is, whether you think they do or not, you need to try...AND I MEAN TRY harder than anything in your life if you want to fix things. Sometimes you just have to eat crap to get what you really want. Go for it. If they don't really want you back, then you're not worse off than now. PERIOD!
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^Yeah do it so she can reject you. She will feel better for it. She would be an idiot to let you come begging back after you discarded her and the kids like garbage. Even if she was to take you back it would always be in the back of her mind. She is better off without you.
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^ perhaps "she" is the one that needs to say that. He screwed up; and if "she" takes some much deserved time out to digest all of this; without anyone else meddeling. And, accept him for his imperfections. Then that is her decision. He acted out a fantasy; he went there. He is paying the price right now. They have children in common, and do have to communicate to some degree. Leave them alone to mend their fences. Everyone projects what they would do in a situation like that. Without the real knowledge of how it really feels to walk in their shoes.
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^Um...he did post this on the internet. He invited the meddeling and criticism by doing so, and if he wanted to be left alone to "mend fences", then he should have kept it to himself. Get off of your high horse. If you're going to throw it out there, you have to be prepared to catch it when it comes back.
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Stupid move, but don't give up everyone makes mistakes and you made a major one.....
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2nd post up. I understand why you may say that. However, he may just need an outlet to get out his thoughts. That doesn't give anyone the right to beat someone down further. Although, you people seem to be experts at that, and get enjoyment from it as well. He and his family are probably going through enough turmoil. Oh, I've caught it. There is nothing left to dig up on me. Its' all out there. I am not the one on any high horse whatsoever. Sorry you feel the way you do. Goodbye.
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Might I suggest you take a Colt 45 and blow your brains out -
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Just go back to your shack made out of cardboard boxes under the bridge.
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I walked in her shoes-- anyone who can do that to someone they love is an ass before he even made the big mistake. For her own peace of mind he needs to go. Nothing sacred in his mind but his dick
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^I walked in her shoes, too. I forgave him, and tried to make it work. Big mistake. Once a cheater always a cheater.
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I hoped you learned someting from this. The grass is NEVER greener on the other side!
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Way to go, Brain Boy.
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Thanks for all the wonderful suggestions. The Colt 45 is the most appealing one.
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sux 2 b u. move on with your life, don't look back.
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You play, you pay. Period.
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there will be others to fill the void you've created for yourself. Your kids too will forgive in time. Don't make drama, move on and get happy with life....without her. You can do it.
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Damn right it's too late. What were you thinking? Give up on 20 years and your family! I am sure that you and your "first love" deserve each other. Your wife and kids deserve better, and now that you are out of the picture they can find it. Good for them!
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I here you bro. f--k these people... I tanked 14yrsdo what you need to do.
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