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i was never really hugged much as a kid, taboo, i know. my mom would beat me and abuse me verbally, and now i find it hard to maintain everyday relationships...

i was never really hugged much as a kid, taboo, i know. my mom would beat me and abuse me verbally, and now i find it hard to maintain everyday relationships...

 
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I am sorry this happened to you. It happened to me too and I know it hurts. We have to find a way to heal and be the love we never received. I wish for you all the love, blessings and healing I wish for myself.
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You will always fill the pain. Just remember no one is alike not men not women.
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Children should be shown unconditional love and affection. I try to hug and kiss my daughter alot, I sometimes wonder if its smothering her.
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^^ its better than slapping her around like you used to.
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someone needs to slap you >> above comment
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bring it weenie^^
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Im so sorry....i was abused by my parents and can relate to you....I will NEVER treat my child like i was treated!!!
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Always look to shift the blame to someone else if possible!
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Mommie, he called me a "weenie"
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If you want a good, healthy relationship, go to a counselor. It cost a few bucks, but it's usually worth it. My fiance has some issues as well, but she's better now since it put things into perspective for her. No pills, just talk.
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Love yourself. Hug your inner child. You can heal, the capacity is within you.
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Your wierd Uncle Ernie was "hugging" you in the basement a lot.
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You need a really good woman, a touchy feely giver to spoil you!
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Posting this must have taken a lot of courage! I'm sending love to you right now... I hope you receive it.
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You are really cute!
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I 2 was abused as a child by my mother.She is 80 this year and in the hospital.she may die and i do not really care.All she is to me is the female that gave birth to me.she has never ever said i love you.though she did tell me one time that i was some bastard kid the hospital gave her when her beautiful baby boy died.SHUD I STILL LOVE AND HAVE FEELINGS FOR HER.Oh i was 14 at the time and i am 54 now
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I totally understand because that's how I grew up. It was really hard to break away from all the ghosts and demons of such an upbringing - but I did it!
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Yes - this is my story too. The way my mother treated me left an indelible mark on my emotional capacities. I was terrified of girls and women in my youth, had all kids of inappropriate realtionships and behavior, and it was not until my mother died that I had appropriate relationships with women. BUT: It can be overcome! Good luck!
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