In 20 years of marriage, you could not have been perfect either. There is a reason she left and felt justifed. Still, sorry for your pain.
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That's what you say!
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I agree 2^. This guy sounds like a whiny victim. I have no doubt he played his part in the breakup of the marriage. Takes two to tango.
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20 years is a long time to build your life with someone. i wouldn't judge him, or her. it's really hard to completely express yourself in 160 characters. i know if my husband left me after 20 years of marriage i wouldn't know how to cope with it! obviously you to have problems, try to get some marriage counseling, even if it's on your own.
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^ Without judging: it is impossible for anyone to be "...nothing but a dedicated, loving and trusting husband." and end up in divorce. You are right there's a lot more going on here than the 160 characters has spoken. But at the same time, it's just not honest.
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Like my dad always said, "treat a woman like sh*t they'll love you forever. Kiss a woman's a$$ they'll walk all over you."
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get on with you life pussy!
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I would love to met a man who is dedicated loyal and loving to the same woman for 20 yrs. Maybe we can trade..my husband for your wife, you know swap em out?? whadda ya say? Oh whats that? Your just another common a** **** too! Yeah that's what I thought ;)
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I can so relate. I know your pain very well
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you gave 20 f***ing years of your life to that cunt. you got two choices. 1. find a much younger chick and flaunt it in the cunts face2. kill the cunt.The choice is yours
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what did you do??
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Too bad there are so many immature brats than can post on here. I keep trying to remove the infantile comments. Anyway, sometimes people change. Hopefully you can forgive her eventually. Oddly enough, you will feel better if you do. I'm speaking from experience here.
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I'm there and I'm just at 10 years. Supported her medical career, took care or the house, took care of the kids, cooked, shopped and fed everyone. Now that she is a physician she totally shits on me. Treats me as a servant. WTF?
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Hey there look on the bright side... you still have time to find someone as good and decent and loving as yourself, as you deserve. Good luck and yes, you MUST find the strength and willpower to do so. There are many decent people out there. Maybe one day all the rest will move to the moon and leave us in peace.
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^2 UP. I've seen that happen to really good kind men. Thier wives start walking all over them. My uncles new wife does it to him, and her 3 daughters do it to their husbands. No love in thier eyes or touch, just honey go do this, do that ect. Everyone else was surprised when 1 of the husbands was caught cheating. Poor guy probably hadn't felt any affection in years. Worse than that, the women embarrass thier husbands in public with thier demands. I hate being a woman sometimes. All the good men are taken and abused until they turn bad.
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i feel your pain, you love her and hate her in the same breath.truth is you can do nothing about it. move on.seek help with a doctor,do not try to get / find somebody to take her place that will make it worse. you will come thru this.
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