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i hate everything that you did to me as a child and will never forgive you.  why couldn't you love me the right way?

i hate everything that you did to me as a child and will never forgive you. why couldn't you love me the right way?

 
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repetitive secret but really cool pic!
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Yes cool pic. I'm sorry about your childhood. people really should have to get a license to procreate, try not to perpetuate the trend huh?
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They didn't love you the "right" way because they didn't know how. Not forgiving them is only hurting YOU, not them. Take whatever they did to you and turn it around and use it to make you stronger, more loving, and more caring. That is how you win. Hate just makes you lose.
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^he didn't know how to keep his hands to himself... does that make what he did to me right? or negate his responsibility as an adult not to abuse a child? because he wasn't sure what was "right" compared to "wrong"? bad things happen and you just can't undo it. i live with it every day of my life and it is not fair!
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^ did he know that? BTW I worte the above post before I continue... I too was molested, so I know what this is all about. My molester was molested too. Fact. These people are sick and crazy and YES they need to be held accountable for their actions ABSOLUTELY. My molester has never seen their grandchildren and never will because of what they did and because they have NEVER owned it. I too live with it everyday BUT, I learned to forgive, I healed my pain, I let go of my hate and I am better for it. I have empathy for my molester...the miserable person that they are and I feel so blessed to not be full of hate or worse, sick like them and having to abuse others in my life in order to feel ok. Get it? You can win, but you have to forgive them.
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I'm glad I never molested a child. It never occurred to me to do that. I'm an old man and for some reason I never had any children but the kids in my life like nieces and cousins and neighborhood children hopefully think of me kindly if at all. I never hurt a child in my entire old life.
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who cares if he was molested as a child? i was too but i don't go f*** little kids because i am reliving my childhood abuse or some bullshit! it's not about winning anything, its about losing everything....
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