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I'm torn between continuing to try or just giving up on this. I want to be with you but I don't want to feel like I'm wasting my time.

I'm torn between continuing to try or just giving up on this. I want to be with you but I don't want to feel like I'm wasting my time.

 
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Have you tried talking to this person? Communication can make a big difference in saving a relationship.
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Distance yourself from the person, fill your life for the next couple weeks with other plans and don't answer thier every phone call or text. They will show you attention if they get that wake up call, and if not, then you know to pull away even further. Distance yourself slowly more and more, keep your schedule full and before you know it... you will have your answer or a new so!
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go with the flow. is it really that bad?
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I am torn between that too but in the end, I am not giving up...
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I am there with you. I am married though, not sure really what to do because there is still Love there, and if there is Love there it's possible to make it grow. IDK ARRGGGHHHH
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Cheat.
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If they are not the one then don't keep trying, if they are then talk it out.
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Find someone new.... he'll keep on after you and it will be then that yo urealize that he is nothing special.
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go ahead and give up
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You and me both....I feel the same way here.
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I'm not torn anymore...I know now that you are just using me and wasting my time. You are just stringing me along, looking for someone else. In the mean time I see you are peddling your wares on CL...Is this something new? I think not, I bet you have been doing it behind my back the entire time I have been with you. I bet you did this to your last GF also...that is why the relationship really ended, isnt it? It was YOU not her that was f**king around!! No wonder she was so pissed and threatened to post your naked pics online! I hope she did...you certainly deserve that and a whole lot worse. You losing me is ENTIRELY your loss!You no longer have to be bothered or put out to email me or communicate with me...I am out of your life for good! I hope you enjoy the deafening silence, and the meaningless nsa encounters in your truck!
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