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I am done playing second fiddle to your son.I am now looking for jobs in Alaska. Its a shame you dont love me enough to talk it out. You dont deserve me.

I am done playing second fiddle to your son.I am now looking for jobs in Alaska. Its a shame you dont love me enough to talk it out. You dont deserve me.

 
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Why can't you be included in the 'family'? Were you the other woman,or are you slutty? or maybe a complaining b****?
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So you are leaving a relationship because you are jealous that your partner puts their son before you. This is very immature. ALL children should come FIRST and ALL adults should be secure enough in themselves to respect that a parent and child bond is vital to the child. A mature adult would respect this. Yeah, run away to Alaska because you deserve to come before a childs needs...you are right... this person doesn't deserve you, they deserve better than you.
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i bet he likes to f*** penguins
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I think the poster might be a dude
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^^^It all depends on the age of the child and any special needs they may have. I've been in poster's position, so I know it is important that both the adults have some alone time once in a while, HOWEVER I do agree that the poster should also exercise some patients and maturity, but I don't think posting here isn't so bad. My ex-girlfriend constantly put her 14 yr old daughter before both of us, not realizing she should have been teaching her how to be an adult. It ruined us. It was sad that her daughter was more mature than she was.
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^Oh please. Even a 14 year old still deserves their parents attention over a boyfriend. Sounds as though you were the most immature one out of all three of you.
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^Obviously you've never been in that situation and obviously you're quick to judge. I appearantly failed to mention she had been married 4 times previous...all ending from simular situations.
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His son SHOULD come first. Insecure much?
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HER son is 13,and she wont make him accept any responsibility. We fight because I want him to pick up his Garbage. We fight,because I am tired of going to take a shit,and sitting in Piss. We fight,because he expects me to give him money,but wont take the garbage out. We fight,because she wont enforce any responsibility,and it is ok for the kid to ignore her. In essence....I am leaving because I will not be walked on by a kid,like she lets her self be.
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^amen, most kids these days have no values or respect for adults in general! if he is that bad of a kid his mother is a loser and you are better off without her.
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^^That's what I was talking about with the ex and the 14 yr old daughter! So, to the people who comment that the son should come first, you don't know what you're talking about. Just face it, you DONT know. You're the ones who let your kids grow up with out responsibilities and let the grow up to be turds because you want to coddle them. Society is F'd. I know my kids won't be like that. They'll be loved, but will grow to be strong, smart, and have morals...not coddled, overprotected pieces of crap.
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So...any of the MEN want to be responsible for raising a b**** boy,who expects to be handed the world on a platter? Or would you like to keep being witty,and talking about Fucking Penguins? Funny,I noticed after He told you the scenario,you all froze up. You are all prolly b**** boys too.
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Think about it; kids grow up(hopefully)and leave home to have lives of their own after roughly eighteen years. You should have your spouse forever. You don't hear about anyone daydreaming about growing old with their kids now do ya? You give them birth, feed and nourish their bodies and souls and let them go. Your wife/husband is still more important than anyone else. and shopuld always come first.
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Go find your joy
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