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i cheated on you for the first six months we dated, your drug use pushed me away. now you are clean and we are married but i still can't tell you the truth.....

i cheated on you for the first six months we dated, your drug use pushed me away. now you are clean and we are married but i still can't tell you the truth.....

 
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DON'T! The past is past, let sleeping dogs lye.
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Well he was drugged out so you got yours he got his, it's over now..if you want to confess do it but don't be afraid of what the truth brings. Clearing your soul is a gift not many get to recieve.
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thank you for easing my mind
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Life is full of secrets...just look at this board. No reason to come clean. No reason to "clear your soul"....heck, you could be "clearing your soul" every month and it ain't gonna get you nothing but more heartache. Let the sleeping dog lay. Cherish your new life together. Clean and in love. Move on.
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You wouldn't have posted here if it didn't bother you... as it will the RESt of your life, every single time you look into his/her eyes.
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^(op)i never slept with anyone else....i just cheated emotionally on him with a different man. and yes i have regrets, but at the time it felt like he was cheating on me with drugs and i couldn't rely on him for support because he didn't have it in himself to give. but i also realized what an amazing person he was and gave him an opportunity to straighten his life out...but there was a time i really thought i had lost him and ending our relationship seemed inevitable. i knew i loved someone who had a serious problem so i left and we had a long distance relationship....it was such a struggle for me because i really needed someone, anyone to talk to and to pay attention to me, even if it was from someone i didn't want. i look at how far he and i have come in the last 4 years and feel blessed it all worked out in the end...but i still feel bad about not being completely honest with my one true love...he is my everything!
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Cheating is cheating, emotionally or physically. That's why you feel the need to let everyone know.
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^i never said it wasn't.....
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Excuses for cheating? Does there need to be a reason? Does anyone really stick around to find out why a selfish person cheated? Oh yeah, By the way, crack heads don't get clean my dear. You are fooling yourself.By the way, "i just cheated emotionally" you can't fool us!
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^you are a very judgmental person. i never gave an excuse, i gave a reason. and people are capable of changing...i know because we both have done it. life is about choices, and personal responsibility......lot's of people make mistakes and learn and grow from them. but you wouldn't know anything about that, would you?
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^^and one more thing, why would i lie about my own secret?
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