See thats my biggest fear is I am afraid that I will actually make a woman seek out women more
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Hmmm, I am sure he would want to know. In this case, you can have your cake and eat it too. Yummy
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Hi everyone, I am the original poster....He knows I am bi-sexual but he does not I would be a true lesbian if not married to him....I could never hurt him like that! But I do have a GF and he knows....
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Does he watch? Join in?
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OP - No he does not watch nor join in - This is something for me ONLY and he is fine with that....He does get to hear details!!
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Seems only fair that he should get to have a GF also (or a BF if that's the way he swings).
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jesus christ! you people are all nuts!
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OP- you say this is something for ME only...that's not fair, you should share. I would be very pissed if I was excluded, if I were him.
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I'd have to agree. Tell your husband that you're interested in women. Even if you won't let him in (but have a heart and at least let him watch!) most men wouldn't mind their lady having an occasional dalliance w/ another chick - AS LONG AS THEY ARE INFORMED! Adultery's not adultery if you check it out w/ your spouse first.
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If you say this, AND YOU ACTUALLY UNDERSTAND WHAT IT MEANS TO BE A LESBIAN (as opposed to using this statement as a way to say that all other men are pigs so you would not want any of them, in which case it is not true) then you are a lesbian. You just happened to be married to a man who is so wonderful that his qualities offset your lack of "natural" attraction to his secondary sex characteristics. Or, you're bisexual.
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So what - you are more gay than str8.
If he makes you happy stick with him and if you can find a gf to play with from time to time.
You'll have the best of both worlds.
I do and life is wonderful!
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I am the exact same way, I even left my husband for a minute, but I cant find a god damn girlfriend, I had one for 10 years, and cant find another. I am a very attractive woman.
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Sexuality in women is MUCH more fluid than in men. Women do not have to commit to just men or just women, they can easily be bi. Could be you *prefer* women, but happen to have found a great guy so for now you're in a hetero relationship. That's fine sister. You don't need to label yourself. x
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OP here - Thanks for all of the encouraging comments - At this point in my IF I were to label myself it would have to be Bi-Sexual - Thanks again!!!
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you are a very sick person and need immediate psychological help. If you dont get it you will be unable to function in a normal capacity
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I feel the same way but i dont have the courage to have a girl on the side
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All that matters is that you guys love each other and he proves his love for you by letting you have your GF and not insisting on being involved. He sounds like a good guy. I hope it all works out for you. I am a guy just in case you are thinking all men are pigs.
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if this is what you think about you must not love him like you say you do. i guess his money is nice to have. do whats right and leave him.
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If you had the COURAGE to be a lesbian, you would be.
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Courage? Have the decency to go the lipstick route and avoid the lumberjack, dykes make all men laugh to themselves...
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The lipstick vs lumberjack comment is so feeble. Even if it were true, which it isn't, your laughter would be as significant as frog farts. Even if it happens, nobody cares.
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