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She was late, so she took a pregnancy test last night. It was negative. I burst into tears. I never knew how badly I wanted to be a father until that moment.

She was late, so she took a pregnancy test last night. It was negative. I burst into tears. I never knew how badly I wanted to be a father until that moment.

 
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Just so you know, to prepare you, that if you are trying and this goes on for months, even years, it is hard to deal with each time. Prepare yourself to face that possibility. I admire any man willing to experience this month after month and actually feel the feelings that go with it. Fo a woman who is trying it can be so painful and so lonely when the partner isn't doing the test with the woman every month. Hopefully conception will occur sooner than later. may you both be blessed.
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i'm sorry that it was negative, just keep in mind how much you will appreciate it when it is positive.
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that doesn't necessarily mean that she isn't pregnant...i took a test when i was late, came back negative, but a test a week later came back positive and i am now a proud mommy so don't give up hope and don't stop trying!
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first morning urine gives the best result, take another test in the morning... good luck!!!
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^also very true!!!
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Hang in there bro. When it comes it is truly a beautiful moment.
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Awww Hon. my heart goes out to you both. Hang in there and pray that will happen. Good Luck
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Being a parent isn't all it's cracked up top be.You should be thankful that you don't have another life that you are responsible for 24/7.
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Maybe God knew you two weren't ready to be parents yet. You could always adopt....... yeah, me neither.
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Hey man You can have mine...just watch em for one day...I bet it will change your mind
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Did she cry also? or was she grateful?
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She was actually pretty neutral.
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If your not in a stable place in life... i.e. You've got a stable job, a feasible place to start raising a family, and the wholehearted belief that your significant other is in it for the long-haul. It is not advisable to give her the seed.
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Things happen for a reason~!
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You dodged a bullet - your partner doesn't feel the same way. Get the hell out of there.
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chill the f*** out, wimp-guy. you'll knock her up eventually and fill that void.
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you should not have to want kids just to feel complete I mean enjoy each other as much as possible because when you do have kids you will hardly ever get to spend time with each other
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