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There are a lotta poor shmucks out there who thought getting married was the best way to get a good sex life. I know, because I'm one of them

There are a lotta poor shmucks out there who thought getting married was the best way to get a good sex life. I know, because I'm one of them

 
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Not all marriages are like that. At the 9 year mark still made time at least 3x a week. I even got a strap on for my husband, as it was something he enjoyed.
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maybe you should have actually been in love with her as a person, and not just her vagina dumbAsS!
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Call 1-800-DOC-RUTH.
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6 years and 2 kids later we still have sex everyday. And sometimes go twice.
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Dude, these successful marriages above are abnornmal. Most people are unhappy being married. i would strongly suggest you do a few things. If you do not have kids, don't. Find a mistress and a good lawyer. Look online and find some good articles on how to get divorced without getting f***ed.
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^ do not listen to him.
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The leading cause of divorce is marriage.
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Help her around house, do something creative together. Think of something spontaneous Cook a candlelit dinner. Do your Research on female orgasms. Get your ass in the gym. Do things to make your self a little more appealing to the opposite sex. When other ladies start to take note that looking great, your wife will catch the hint. Maybe she is the type that needs a little competition? Sorry, I am assuming this OP is a man. There is no way sex has to ever die in a marriage. That is just another fear-based mechanism installed by the MAN to keep us from happiness. (zane)
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Don't assume it's only the man who doesn't "get enough"(or any)...I'm a woman leaving a 14 year marriage due to lack of sex and general unhappiness.
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^ congrats! you are statistic. (zane)
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Marriage is all about what you both put into it.If one does all the work of marriage and the other doesnt help one will be exhausted and one will be deprived.
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A guy I use to know told me a few weeks before his wedding that he couldn't wait to get married so he could get sex any time he wanted. I laughed so hard...he's divorced now.
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You can have a lacking sex life inside por outside of marriage. marriage is always to blame when it is actually the people involved IN it.
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I am a nympho that wears out batteries and shower massagers all the time. I highly doubt my marriage will be sexless. I want someone to play with everyday. I hope that I get married soon sex with a partner is much better, especially when you know them and they know you and you know the best ways to please each other.
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^You just want to get married to save money on batteries. Tight ass!^
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7^ (zane) Sounds like a lot of hard work. You sure us men have to do allllll that to stay in the game with wifey. I am not sure its worth it. She is not that good in the sack anyway.
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^Becoming a better lover is always worth it, and confidence is key. Exude in your every action. Work on being the best you can be in all aspects of your life. Don?t become impatient, and annoyed if is she is putting off sex for a while. For the most part women are picky and temperamental. You can Use this to your advantage. Allow yourself to become sexually frustrated, but DO NOT let it show. REMEMEBER CONFIDENCE IS KEY! Let her curiosity run wild, and watch how it turns into arousal. If you leave your wife, will you swear off all women? Oh course, you wont! The next could come along, and over time, you may find yourself in the same situation. My friend, do not take what I am going to type personally. becoming a better lover is always worth it. If she is not that good in the sack, you MAY not be either. I can only compare sex to a dance. It is a give and take, but someone has to lead. Lead her! Let her feel she is safe in your hands. You know her, perhaps, sometimes better than she knows herself. Close your eyes and extend your soul outward to meet hers. You are one! Occasionally there may be a time when your wife may want to lead. When that happens just roll with it brother! It will be a good time, for sure (zane)
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Hell throw her on the bed and make her holler! Just take it and make her yell, do it hard and fast like the bad boys she used to date before she met you. Show her a new side of you. The one that makes her get the chills, the shivers of pleasure from just thinking about what you do together.
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Yeah, Yeah Zane. All well and good, but also get ready to slip some handcuffs and a gag on her whilst she is sleeping, and go for it. (PR)
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^ to each his own, i suppose. (zane)
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Now aint that the danged truth!!! I jack off more than I get pussy from my ol' lady. Another woman in charge of something..manipulating...prolly for some off the wall unreasonable concept that is well worth cutting off ones nose to spite the face. Who the f.uck knows anymore...whan your the Queen Bee...then you don't have to answer to the damn peasants...
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Everyone knows that the fastest way to kill a woman's sex drive is to feed her wedding cake.
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