honest. If you aren't a mother, you have no room to judge. I get where you are coming from with this. Being a parent is REALLY FUCKING HARD sometimes. Being a good parent is even harder and it does take it's toll. It is a fantasy that parenthood is bliss. People who can be honest about these feelings, admit them, talk about them are the better parents. It is the ones who pretend that all is well when inside they are snapping are the ones who lose it and harm their kids.
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Whose fault is it they are "rotten brats? YOURS? Are you married? Or, just another "statistic'?
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Just maintain self control, but more importantly, work on their attitudes..As a father I try to keep the kids from disrespecting their mom.. it seems natural for children to do so.
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i'm the op a page back who lost her baby, i really hope you appreciate the gift that you have, not everyone is so lucky :(
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Kids are evil especially to thier parents. Don't listen to the first poster thats probably zane you has self professed to trying to start arguments based on no intelligent means. He needs to get laid feel sorry for him he has no life. Don't take it to heart is my point. You do the best you can, one day at a time. Feel free to punish them, it is your right and responsibility.
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I feel your pain. My oldest was an okay kid until his little brother was born, now he's rotten as all hell. They are 4 yrs old and 11 months old and they already fight with each other.
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Just remember, when today is through you never get it back. You only have age 7 years, 5 months, 12 days and 2 hours once, if you eff it up you can't un-eff it up. Cherish the moments, even the tough ones, and in the end, so will they. Live by loving. Remember to take a time out for yourself, minutes, hours, whatever it takes. These are human beings that did not ask to ruin your life and they are creatures which you have created. Until they start school everything they know and do is what you have taught them. If you think you may have taught them wrong, re-teach them, and yourself.
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I hope to God none of your kids die in an automobile accident. Maybe then, you'd realize what a precious gift you lost ... forever... here on Earth.
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Both of the above 2 posts are the kind of crap people tell you who have absolutely NO clue what it can be like raising difficult children. Feeling that way is normal. Acting on it is another story. Try to spend a little time away from the kids just for yourself if you can.
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I believe all parents feel the way you do at times. Parenting is a hard job, and being a good parent is especially hard. Some days it can absolutely exhaust you. Please, take some time for 'yourself.' You deserve it. Love and appreciate your little ones. Too soon they grow up. Good luck!
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^^ Do you have autistic kids, or what? Sorry, you brought them into this world; it is your responsibility to take care of them until they are 18 or move the hell out on their own. You people must have some f***ed up kids. Have an academically gifted kid... tell me they aren't hard to handle!
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nice teats
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^^^^I am the poster ^^ from you, I have twins whom I have raised completely on my own, and let me tell you, it hasn't been a walk in the park. However, I have loved the the crap out of them which has proven to be much more effective than beating the crap out of them.
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show me your "twins"
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Too bad you feel this way! Raising kids is tough and not all of us are cut out for the task. Just know I understand how you feel but I do not accept it. You deserve better, but most of all is those "Brats" deserve much better!!
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Too bad you feel this way! Raising kids is tough and not all of us are cut out for the task. Just know I understand how you feel but I do not accept it. You deserve better, but most of all is those "Brats" deserve much better!!
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Douches who make those old cliche comments really only make things worse. Don't listen to them. They like to act like they are better than everyone else doling out their advice. It's normal to feel that way sometimes.
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to the guy that posted above this page...how lucky ur fam is to have a guy like u in the house! u r sooo right about kids disrespecting their moms...so true!!
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You can always put your kids on drugs. I'm sure you have a prescription for something yourself. It's the American way to cope with reality. Drug yourself, or everyone else around you.
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Ok, as a single mother of a two year old, there are times that I think she needs a severe ass whippin, but honestly lady, the way your kids behave is due to the parenting...My baby is onery as hell, and does things that make me shake my head in amazement, but I would never harm a hair on her head out of anger. Get some help lady before you flip out on them and end up hurting them...You will NEVER forgive yourself and won't be able to turn back time...
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cop out, are you saying you cause them to be ill in some way? there may be people out there who would be glad to take your kids and provide for them in a healthy environment. If you can't protect them from harm and provide a quality life for them let someone else do it, for their sake. They didn't ask to be born unto you.
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^^ Are your kids inbred? Do they have a genetic defect? I'm positively sure you are at least half the problem.
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If they are rotten brats you know who's to blame? (Sing in oompa looma song) "What do you get when your kid is a brat? Pampered and spoiled like a Siamese cat. Pointing the blame is a lying shame, you know exactly who's to blame>>> THE MOTHER AND THE FATHER!"
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5^ WTF do you mean you make them sick sometimes? Are you poisoning them?
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Yeah...and the only good thing is that those kids will grow up and have kids of their own that they will feel the same way about....and as the grandma, you'll know this and spoil them...then leave them home with THEIR mom and dad...hehehehehehe. It's great!!
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f*** all of you who thinkyour kids are perfect lololololoo jokes on you.
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I think discipline is needed here for bratty kids. The unfortunate thing is the LAW says there is really only one way to disipline kids...time out! BUT diffrent strokes for diffrent folks, some kids actualy need to be spanked some kids need to have amusements taken away from them yu see where I am going. So if you all would keep you f***ing judgements to yourself while I disipline my kids how I want then you wouldn't have brats running around.
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^ John Rosemond, is that you?!? J/K! LOL! He sounds like a complete ass most of the time in his columns in the newspaper.
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Sucks. If only more young mothers would be honest enough to share the horrors of raising little 'angels' to save others the nightmares.
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Weird pic... but she has nice boobies.
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AMEN,AMEN,AMEN!!!! I love my kids to pieces... but I CANNOT HANDLE them at all... and YES they go out of their way to disrespect their mothers believe me... cause when dad is around all he has to do is look at them funny and they're COMPLETELY different people!!! I have four, my oldest 14 and my youngest 2 1/2... my youngest has been BY FAR THE WORST BEHAVED CHILD I HAVE EVER ENCOUNTERED IN MY LIFE!!!! She just screams constantly... oh the thoughts of just wanting to rip her voice box out :-( its awful and I hate feeling such rage inside... but luckily I know better and have NEVER hurt them, Nor would I... it's just my own deamons that I have to deal with, to help me become a better parent and to understand what is wrong with them or actually probably me... the fact is children emulate what they see.... so it can't all be their fault!I wish you luck in parenting.... I am pregnant with
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I hear you! My kids were hard to deal with when they were small but it gets better as they get older. some day you will look back on this and laugh.
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talk to someone about it
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You are one of the many, not one of the few
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tie your tubes stupid !
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