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I am 20 and I just went to my first party. I didn't get drunk, I didn't smoke pot, and I did feel uncomfortable. I feel like a loser...

I am 20 and I just went to my first party. I didn't get drunk, I didn't smoke pot, and I did feel uncomfortable. I feel like a loser...

 
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This dosent make you a loser. I am 29 and I have partied so much just the THOUGHT of a party bores me to tears. Its just not your thing. People are stupid and perhaps you just do not like being around them when they are just trying to act even more retarded!?
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But you DID take it in the ass, didn't you?
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If you were at your first party at 20 and didnt drink or get high, why did you even go? I'm sure everyone else there thought you were a loser too. Maybe partying isn't for you. Join a book club!
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everybody else is doin it.you should do it to if you want to be cool too. actually they are not the cool ones when you get older and wiser you will know that.
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Fuck what is or isn't cool. If its not your thing, it not your thing.
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You will be their boss one day, including the idiot posters who belittled you on this site.
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You are not the loser, the pot smokers and drinkers are.
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He seems to have regrets, go score and enjoy your weekend!
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Partys suck.
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I was like you when i was 20, but hey i'm 27 now and I've been to a lot of parties. U know wat I regret; not finish skewl on time like most of my friends did. Instead of thinkin u're a loser, use all that time to plot the future and trust me it'll pay off. when u know wat u're doing people will worship you. Dont worry about booze and dope it's not ur things so dont try so hard to fit in. People dont like fakers, u have to natural. Go with the flow. I like to party and socialize though.
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I've been to many parties...they suck. What do ya do? You just sit there, get drunk/stoned and do stupid crap that you'll regret later. Wow. Don't feel like a loser, feel like you're responsible instead.
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Your not a loser because you didn't do those things. Don't be like the stupid sheep who blindly follow eachother over the cliffs. Sure you were uncomfortable - you were hanging out with a bunch of high and drunken idiots. There is so much more to life than partying.
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Oh if I could only go back and stop the stupid, stupid things that I said and did at parties. You are not a loser. There are folk who get together to have fun without drinking and drugs, it's just a little harder to find them. Don't give up.
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Yo! Ya don't just hop into the race car and just mash the peddle to the metal. Get a feel for it. Learn to drive. You'll appreciate the journey a lot more that way, you really will. Go to parties, hang with your friends. Just be cool, dress cool act smart and smile a lot. You'll be a chick magnet....
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You were boring. We decided that it would be best if you didn't show next time. After we turned 18, we have the chance to make our own decisions. We chose this. Go blow your clarinet.
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I think you were probably the coolest one there. Don't feel like a loser just because your friends think that medicating themselves is cool. If you were uncomfortable then you shouldn't go. Sober people are hot.
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GOOD FOR YOU !!!Do not let anyone change you! You are the GREATEST !!!!
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Parties are for losers
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I don't get it. Why feel like a loser? I do the same thing and people respect me more for it. Come on now, you know this
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"Parties are for losers"? what is this? It's like saying America sucks. Party is good because you can socializing and networking. You dont have to drink or smoke because the one that can control themselve are the coolest.
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The soberist person gets the most chicks trust a girl wants a dude that can handle his liquor and keep his composure
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America does suck...well it's going to
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I am 58 years old. I regret being drunk at two party's when I was in my teens. It's nice to have fun but why do I still wish I had used better judgment. I don't want my friends to remember me as a hooch....Oct. '09: 40 years later at my HS reunion I did not drink and let my alumna get loud and be crazy. The smell on there breath was of sweat white wine.
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YOU ARE NOT A LOSER! I think you're courageous for not buckling under peer pressure and being another "sheep following the herd". You are an upstanding role model and you should be proud of yourself :)
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you will be invited back. I am sure.
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