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I'm pretty sure I have herpes but am too scared to get tested. No one is ever going to want to be with me ever again. I know I will be alone forever.

I'm pretty sure I have herpes but am too scared to get tested. No one is ever going to want to be with me ever again. I know I will be alone forever.

 
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get checked....knowing is better than not knowing!
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I'm so sorry for you, but it doesn't mean you're love life is completely over!! My step sis got herpes when she was young, dickhead bf cheated on her - 6 years later though, she's married to a great guy and they have a beautiful little son. You just have to change the way you interact romantically a little, and find someone understanding. Go get checked, you owe yourself that much. No worries, you'll find someone!! Good luck to you.
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You would be amazed at how common herpes is. Most people who have it don't know they have it. It is most frequently passed on without either party being aware that it is there. Get yourself checked out and start using protection. You will be fine.
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It is believed that 80% (some studies show up to 90%) of people carry oral herpes. You can get genital herpes from someone who has oral herpes. (Even though they are different forms of the virus) For someone to reject you for having herpes is pathetic. If that person took the blood test...there is a good chance that THEY are a carrier too.
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I thought the same thing when I got it 10 years ago. Guess what. I have met an amazing man who doesn't care and loves me unconditionally. The right fit is out there. When you meet that person nothing will stop them from loving you. And I do mean nothing!
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Other people have Herpes too, they are probably looking for someone just like you.
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I have oral Herpes (cold sores), have had it all my life. Unfortunatly, mom passed it to all her kids unknowingly, rest her soul. I am married a woman who told me before we married that she had genital herpes. Both of our maladies have all but disappeared since we married, hers altogether, mine still occasionally rears its ugly head but medications today are excellent for controling these things. See a doctor, get the medication, be honest with your partners and live your life. It is not over. - Nikodemus
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herpes is so common dont let it eat you up. there is still hope.
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What makes you think you have it?
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Herpes--- Last I heard was not treatable. ^ And this is the first Ive heard about frontal lobe issues--- Please reveal your source.
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so if most people with herpes don't know they have it why is it so bad it dose not do any thing that puts your health in serious risk its just annoying at times. and i was born with it my mother got it and passed it to me. and i found out when i was 16, and yet i also found a understanding person that dose not mind it. 3 out of every person has some form of herpes.
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it is treatable not curable
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I found out 3 years ago that i have herpes. I cryed and kicked his cheating ass out. We had been together for 3 years. I tried the STD dating sites. You will be amazed how many people in your area have herpes. I am planning my wedding in march. My fiance is the most amazing man i have ever met. He loves me and my four children unconditionally. Everything happens for a reason. I now veiw herpes as a blessing. Had i not contracted herpes i would have married the cheater, and would never have been truly happy. Get tested. Take your Valtrex. Be patient. Good things come to those who wait.
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^congrats to you.
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You are creeping me out,im scared of people like you that have these secrets and can affect others.It doesnt pay to be promiscous today.
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^ Maybe that's a good thing?!
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It doesnt take promiscuity on the part of someone who has it. I got herpes from a cheating husband. Also you never know who has it and is not disclosing it to their sex partners. dont forget all of those who have no idea that they have it and pass it on.
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It's no big deal. A ton of people have it.
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My crotch itches.
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Yeah, some of these comments are horribly inaccurate- I wouldn't take medical advice from anyone here. Good news is that herpes isn't a big deal. I've had one outbreak in four years, and I've never had a person turn me down because of it. If you're honest, you'd be surprised how non-judgemental people can be.
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You need to be checked. Once you checked and "if" you do have it, well, do what the doctor tells you. But the important thing to remember here is this. . . It's personal and private information. Your Dr. won't tell anyone, so why should you? You're not the first, nor the last to ever have this happen to them. Live life to its fullest!! You only have one shot at it. Don't cheat yourself out of it. Get checked!!
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wow i am both discusted and amazed isnt herpes painful pus filled blisters? last time i checked it was. How can any of you say its not a BIG deal?!?!? ITS A BIG FUCKING DEAL! TO THE ORIGINAL POSTER...GO GET YOUR SHIT CHECKED OUT!
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trust me, u wont be alone forever, i was raped at 18. bastard gave me herpes and i found the love of my life and he is completely ok with it. we dont eevn use condoms. he loves me and doesnt care. and u will find someone like that too honey
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Love is having herpes together.
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I'm Getting tested this Friday sooo scared that I'll be alone forever I really wanted have a healthy baby without any issues
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